The Expert Expatriate (Expat) - Your Guide to Successful Relocation Abroad: Moving, Living, Thriving - Paperback - 2002 Edition

293 Pages·2002·1.63 MB·English

by  Melissa Brayer Hess & Patricia Linderman

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Hess, Melissa Brayer.
The expert expatriate: your guide to successful relocation abroad: mov-
ing, living, thriving/Melissa Brayer Hess and Patricia Linderman.
p. cm.
Includes bibliographical references.
ISBN 1-85788-320-0
1. Moving, Household I. Linderman, Patricia. II. Title
TX307.H47 2002
648'.9—dc21
20011051950
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Dedication
To David, who made the international experiences possible, and
to John and Elizabeth, who were always there for me.
—M. B. H.
To my writers’ group, the SUNwriters, with undying gratitude
and a deluxe fruit basket!
—P. L.
Table of Contents
Foreword .................................................................................. xi
Acknowledgments .................................................................. xiii
Introduction ............................................................................ xv
Chapter 1: Getting the Information and Support You Need ... 1
Getting Started: The Basics .......................................... 2
Other Sources of Information and Support ................. 4
Living Conditions in Your New Country ..................... 5
An Exploratory Trip ..................................................... 7
The Importance of a Sponsor ...................................... 8
Thoughts to Remember.............................................. 10
Chapter 2: Learning the Local Language .............................. 13
Convincing Your Organization to
Support Language Training ................................... 15
How Much Training Do You Need? .......................... 17
Training Options ........................................................ 19
Taking Advantage of Your Learning Style ................. 22
Tips to Maximize Your Success .................................. 24
If You’re Still Not Making Progress ........................... 27
If You Arrive without Language Skills ....................... 28
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Chapter 3: Managing Your Move .......................................... 31
Planning Ahead .......................................................... 32
Timing Your Packout .................................................. 33
Organizing Your Finances and Paperwork ................. 34
Pack the Piano? Store the Skis? .................................. 37
“Honey, They Packed the Passports!”
Preparing for Packout Day ..................................... 52
Don’t Forget to Say Goodbye ..................................... 54
Chapter 4: Confronting a New Culture ................................. 57
Cross-Cultural Communication:
Bridging the Gap .................................................... 58
Building Cross-Cultural Skills ..................................... 59
Common Cultural Differences ................................... 64
Attitudes and Values ................................................... 69
The Rewards of Confronting a New Culture ............ 78
Chapter 5: Moving Children Overseas .................................. 81
Informing Children about the Move .......................... 83
Schooling Options ...................................................... 87
Helping Children Learn the Language ...................... 92
Preparing for the Move ............................................... 94
Moving with Children of Various Ages ...................... 98
Last Days, First Days ................................................ 108
Making a Success of It .............................................. 114
Coming Home .......................................................... 125
Chapter 6: Moving Pets Overseas ........................................ 129
Proper Preplanning Prevents Perturbed Pets ............ 129
Pet Entry Requirements and
Quarantine Restrictions ........................................ 131
Prior to Air Travel .................................................... 137
Concerns about Older Pets ....................................... 139
Pets in Hotels ............................................................ 140
Living in the Third World with Pets ......................... 142