Table Of ContentThe
Dating
Playbook
For Men
A Proven 7-Step System to Go from Single
to
the Woman of Your Dreams
Andrew Ferebee
founder of KnowledgeforMen.com
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Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1: The Grounded Man
The Importance Of Self-Reliance As A Man
Your Purpose Is Everything
You Are What You Value
It’s Not About Money — It’s About Momentum
Always Invest In Yourself
Building An Awesome Social Life
Deepen Into Your Masculine Polarity
Chapter 2: The Internal Mindset
You Are Enough
Love Yourself More Than You Love Anyone In The
World
Unleash Your Values Onto Others
Always Be Having Fun
Freedom From Outcome Will Set You Free
Walk The World With Abundance
Be Entitled To What You Want
Chapter 3: Understanding What Women Want
Value, Money, And Physical Looks
Emotions vs. Logic-based Attraction
On Being Dominant & Powerful
Your Personality And Behavior Matter More
Women Want Sex Just As Much As You, If Not More
Chapter 4: Going Out And Interacting With Women
The Not-So-Hidden Secret To Getting Results — And
Fast
Getting Into Your Most Powerful “State” Everyday
The Art Of The Approach
Four Simple Ways To Approach Women
The Three Golden Rules Of Approaching
How To Hook Any Girl’s Interest So She’s Chasing You
How To Handle Her Tests
How To Have Stimulating Conversation With Any
Woman
How To Get Away From 21 Questions With Women
How To Never Run Out Of Things To Say
How To Have More Meaningful Conversations For
Deeper Connections
How To Physically Escalate With Women
Chapter 5: Closing
Determining Her Logistics
Step-By-Step On How To Leave A Venue Together
So How Do You Get Her To Leave With You?
The Best Way To Get Her Phone Number Without Fail
How To Go From Getting Her Phone Number To The
First Date
The Rules Of Texting
The First, Second And Third Date
What To Talk About On The First Date
How To Kiss On The First Date
How to Bring Her Back To Your Place
What To Do When You Bring Her Back To Your Place
Handling Resistance To Sex
How To Handle A Woman You Really Like But Who’s
Not Into You
The Secrets To Having Great Sex
How To Have An Awesome Dating Life
Chapter 6: Girlfriends And Relationships
Don’t Ever Settle Because You’re Lonely
Take Care Of Yourself First
Staying The Grounded Man In The Relationship
Foundations Of The Relationship
Communication Is Your Best Ally
Setting Healthy Boundaries
Beware Of Losing Your Identity In Relationships
Vulnerability Is The Key To The Kingdom
Understanding What Love Is And Isn’t
How To Have A Long, Happy, And Loving Relationship
That
Gets Better And Better
Chapter 7: Mastery
How To Go From Beginner To Intermediate To
Advanced In Approaching And Interacting With
Women.
Understanding It’s A Marathon
View This As A Game
The Real Secret To Success
Master One Thing First
Master Basic Social Skills
Always Be On
Maverick And Goose
Building Your Drive And Motivation
Growing As A Man
Wrapping It Up
The Awakening
Urgent Plea!
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Introduction
Why I Wrote This
y name is Andrew Ferebee and I’m the founder of
knowledgeformen.com and host of the top-ranked
podcast on iTunes, Knowledge For Men, which gets
over 80,000 downloads per month. I’ve conducted
over 300 interviews with the world’s leading experts
on the topics of dating, relationships, masculinity and
life. I’m the author of amazon best selling books The
Break Up Manual For Men and The Porn Pandemic.
Additionally, I’ve coached hundreds of men one-on-
one on overcoming their fears and limiting beliefs
and on going after the life they want with the utmost
intensity.
Growing up, I myself struggled with talking to
girls and with putting myself out there, often
watching as my friends easily mingled with beautiful
women in high school, college, and post-college. I
am naturally a shy and introverted type of guy, who
likes to keep to himself. When it came to socializing
with women and trying to date them, I felt like a
man on the sidelines for the majority of my life.
I’m not a bad-looking guy. I was a leader in
school and into my career. I’m fit, healthy, and
financially stable, yet when it came to women, I was
absolutely clueless.
Finding the right women to date was one area of
my life that was really lacking and beginning to
impact my overall happiness and well-being.
If I managed to get into a relationship, it would
usually end within six months. Honestly, I don’t
know what’s worst, not being able to get into a
relationship at all, or having a woman run the other
way once she gets to really know you.
It was a blow not only to my self-esteem, but to
my dignity as a man.
After spending so much time in relationships that
were going nowhere or getting “friend-zoned” by
the women I wanted to date, I knew I had to do
something about this in order to get the women and
life I truly wanted.
I spent the next eight years working on myself
with personal development, live events, coaching,
and above all, taking massive action in the real
world.
Since then, it’s been a wild ride which has
brought me more women, long-term relationships,
confidence, and power into my life. As an added
bonus, the journey of self-improvement and
mastering dating and relationships brings with it
much more than just women: the feeling that you
can do anything you want in the world.
It’s that feeling of freedom and of power to create
the life you want, which is at the core of every man.
Having gathered all of this information from real
world experiences, I felt I should share this
knowledge with others who may want it. Due to the
nature of the dating industry, I was hesitant at first to
release this information. However, because what I
saw available online and what was written in the
books of others — as I saw it — gave men no real
actionable, clear, focused content and often left them
even more confused, I was compelled to release
what I had learned to men around the world.
Writing a dating book full of personal advice was
never particularly a life-goal of mine. Yet, I
understand the challenges men go through in the
dating world, trying to meet women, and putting
themselves out there. I also know how good it feels
when you are in that special, desired relationship
with a woman you really like. So, if this book helps
other men to get to a good place in their dating life
and relationships with women, then it will all be
worth it.
What I’m about to share is a complete step-by-
step guide of everything I’ve learned on my eight-
year journey, which will help you go from where
you are now with women to where you want to be.
My goal for this book is to empower you to
become a more confident, purposeful, powerful man
and to date the women you desire, which can
ultimately lead to you being with the woman of your
dreams.
Does that sound good?
Let’s get started.
This Is Why You’re Single
If you are single now it is because one, several, or all
of the following:
1. You are not a strong confident man. You are a
boy inside an adult body.
2. You don’t understand women and female
psychology.
3. You don’t go out and meet new women
regularly.
4. You don’t know how to talk and flirt with the
women you’re attracted to.
5. You don’t know how to transition from
meeting a woman to a first date.
6. You don’t understand how the dating process
works.
7. You don’t know how to have a happy,
respectful, and loving relationship.
8. You ignore dating and relationships altogether
and focus on other aspects of your life like
