Oral Sex She’ll Never Forget: 50 Positions and Techniques That Will Make Her Orgasm Like She Never Has Before

164 Pages·2010·37.082 MB·English

by  Sonia Borg Ph.D.

“knowledge is power. Sexual knowledge is bliss. Dr. Sonia’s Oral
ROck HER WORLD!
DR. SONIA BORG earned her Ph.D. in Sex She’ll Never Forget is truly a cunnilingus cookbook for lovers.
human sexuality and masters in public health
From her nonjudgmental approach to hook-up and casual sex
Cunnilingus is an experience that should engage
from The Institute for Advanced Study of
cunnilingus, to the creatively detailed scenarios, like The carwash all the senses and thrill her body from head to
Human Sexuality in San Francisco, and her
Quickie and The Handyman’s Special, every man will gain the confidence toe. Oral Sex She’ll Never Forget teaches you
masters degree in communication from San
ORAL mind-blowing mouth moves as well as unique
Francisco State University. She is certified as a to create his own unique recipe for oral sex bliss.”
positions, little known female erotic zones,
clinical sexologist by the American College of
—Nick Karras, D.H.S., author of Petals
and hot foreplay that will take her to new
Sexologists and is a member of The American
Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors “ This book is an excellent companion to Dr. Sonia’s previous book on oral sex for him. heights of orgasm.
SEX
and Therapists (AASECT). Sonia has been The information is accurate, accessible, and very comprehensive. It’s fun
You’ll find detailed scenarios for every type of
featured on television and radio shows such as
to read and you can open it to any page and learn something that will
cunnilingus experience from romantic to kinky
Discovery Channel Canada, Playboy Radio,
help you be a better lover. Definitely one for the personal library.” and basic to advanced. Whether you’re looking
Good Morning San Diego, and programs on
for new techniques or sure-fire ways to give her
—Nina Hartley, R.N., sex educator, author, and entertainer
KUSI in San Diego. She is a sought-after
an orgasm (or two…or three), this bedside guide
speaker, educator, author, and sex expert. SHE’LL
is all you need to give her incredible oral sex.
“ Oral sex sets the stage for surrender more
Getting a woman to orgasm has more to do with movement of your lips than what you do with your hips.
deeply than any other sensual encounter.
This ultimate oral sex guide teaches you all of the moves you need to go down on a woman skillfully.
NEVER This primer will lead you step by step and
Oral Sex She’ll Never Forget gives 50 unique cunnilingus experiences from start to finish. You’ll learn breath by breath into creative, playful,
mouth moves and hand strokes. You will use sex toys and new settings to create the most exciting oral sex and sacred erotic trance states. Dr. Sonia
experiences for her. Surprise your lover with something new and exciting and she’ll never forget you. soundly leads the man into successful
seduction of the feminine mind, body, and
Also Avaialble: Give her:
spirit. The woman receiver will be amazed
FORGET
Wild and a Little Rough Cunnilingus: Toe-curling sensations that will
at her lover’s confidence, devotion, and
have her biting the pillowcases
attention to unimaginable details. I love
Fire and Ice: Mind-blowing pleasure using hot and cold
how Sonia helps men become more than
Full-Service Cunnilingus: Her ultimate fantasy creatures of habit. With this book he can
take a risk and put together a whole new
Whether she’s in the mood for something playful or a little naughty, sexy photography
way of being with his woman lover—fresh
and detailed illustrations show you exactly how to thrill her and have her beg for more. 50 Positions & Techniques That Will Make
and adoring. Wow. I want a man who’s
Her Orgasm Like She Never Has Before read this book.”
Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget
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Text © 2010 Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H.
Photography © 2010 Quiver
First published in the USA in 2010 by
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1. Sex instruction for men. 2. Oral sex. 3. Female orgasm. I.
A Note to Readers: Title.
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or medical doctor. Some of the practices and positions in this Book Layout: Daria Perreault
book may not be appropriate for people with medical conditions
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Oral Sex
She’ll
Never
FOrget
50 Positions and techniques that Will Make
her Orgasm like She Never has Before
Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H., M.A.
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CONTENTS
006 I ntroduction: 050 CuNNIlINguS aNd the SINgle lOver
this Is Not the “Same Ole” Oral Sex Book
052 Safer Sex Cunnilingus
008 B ut First, Basic Female anatomy:
054 Hookup Cunnilingus
You’ve got to Know her Parts
056 Casual Sex Cunnilingus
014 CuNNIlINguS eveNt headlINerS
058 CuNNIlINguS ON the Sexual edge
016 Rock Her World
060 Dominant/Submissive Games
018 The Aphrodite
064 “Dirty Girl” Cunnilingus
020 Tantric Cunnilingus
066 Naughty and Nice
022 Shaken and Stirred
024 Shave Before You Eat 068 YOur CuNNIlINguS FaNtaSIeS COMe true
026 The Mile High Challenge
070 Rhythm and Flow Cunnilingus
072 The Handyman’s Special
030 INCreaSe OrgaSMIC INteNSItY WIth SeNSual
074 Wild and a Little Rough Cunnilingus
INdulgeNCeS—PluS CuNNIlINguS
076 Pay-to-Play Cunnilingus
032 The Whole Donut Massage
080 Full-Service Cunnilingus
034 Morning Thunder
082 Waterside Cunnilingus
038 The Royal Treatment
084 Bonus Cunnilingus
040 Light Her Fire
086 The Cunnilingus Train
042 Wet and Wild
088 French Cunnilingus
044 The Harlequin Special
046 Wake-Up Call
048 Thrill Her from Head to Toe
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090 S PeCIal SKIllS CuNNIlINguS FOr 124 gaMeS PeOPle PlaY…
aN eveN deePer CONNeCtION WIthOut theIr PaNtIeS
092 Downward Dog 126 The Masturbation/Cunnilingus Game
094 Juicy Squirt Cunnilingus 130 The Remote Control Cunnilingus Game
096 Fire and Ice 132 The Cunnilingus Challenge Game
100 Cool and Refreshing 136 The Cunnilingus Spelling Game
102 The Cunnilingus Exercise 138 The Cunnilingus Sex Toy Game: Level 1
104 Cunnilingus on Demand 140 The Cunnilingus Sex Toy Game: Level 2
106 The Steady Tongue 142 Truth or Dare
108 The Vulva Whisperer 144 Yes, No, or Maybe
112 Three Erogenous Zones
150 appendix I: a Woman’s Forum
114 Humming Cunnilingus
157 appendix II: resources
116 The Cunnilingus Closer
158 about the author
118 S PICe thINgS uP WIth 159 acknowledgments
CuNNIlINguS QuICKIeS
120 The Car Wash Quickie
122 The Drive-through Quickie
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Introduction: this Is Not the
“Same Ole” Oral Sex Book
No sex technique says “I love you” quite the way that cunnilingus does.
Oral adoration of her most intimate parts is one of the greatest gifts you can give a
woman. Like every gift that will be cherished, it must be right for the recipient and
offered from the giver’s heart. A few aimless licks in the hopes of getting something
in return will not be considered the gift of cunnilingus here!
Regardless of your position on cunnilingus, most women love it and some can’t
climax without it. Cunnilingus is sex, and a beautiful form of sex at that. Unlike
intercourse, you get to taste, smell, and touch your partner all in the same moment.
Like driving a stick shift, cunnilingus is a learned skill; you can learn it, and you can
be very, very good at it. I will show you how.
Other books may teach you different tongue and mouth moves, as I do here.
My book does more than that! I have created special scenarios that turn
cunnilingus into a sex event.
If you’ve always wanted to be the kind of man who has the power to
psychologically arouse your partner and the technical skills to bring her to
orgasm, this book is for you. You will get so much from performing cunnilingus,
including:
• Increased confidence in your skills as a lover
• Sexual satisfaction (hers and yours)
• Being in your masculine power
• Newly inspired sense of sexual adventure and creativity
• Being more in tune with her sexual response cycle
And my promise to both you and your lover is this: The relationship
will feel new and exciting again.
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Each scenario is exciting and creative and will help you master cunnilingus.
I’ve organized them into categories, and you’ll find one that suits every erotic
mood. In addition, Sex Facts are sprinkled throughout the book and are sure
to add to your sexual knowledge. Within the scenarios, you’ll find easy
segments: Perfect the Move highlights the special techniques used. The
Scenario sets up the creative fantasy that turns this act of cunnilingus into
a sex event. Last-Minute Preparations gives you all the little preparatory
details. The Technique gives you step-by-step directions from first touch to
her orgasm.
And finally, The Sexpert Says gives you useful information based on my
own experience, observations as a sexologist, and confessions from clients.
The notes here will help you understand how to be playful amd sexually
adventurous with your woman and give you a snapshot of female sexuality,
with some insights into male sexuality, too.
There is a cunnilingus scenario here for every mood, from playful to soul
mate-connecting. If you try one and don’t like it, try another . . . and another
. . . and another. Adapt, change, and modify to make it your own. What
compares to the warmth of your breath, the wet sucking of your mouth,
the firmness of your tongue?
I sincerely hope that my book will give you the tools and inspiration for rocking
her erotic world and becoming more expressive and adventurous with her.
And I hope that you learn more about your own sexuality and experience the
confidence and personal power from a licking well done.
Wishing you a healthy and happy sex life!
xoxox,
Dr. Sonia
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But First, Basic Female Anatomy:
You’ve Got to Know Her Parts
You can’t drive her crazy if you don’t know where her buttons are,
right? Here are some terms to get you started:
The Vulva The Clitoris •Thecrura(a.k.a.wings):Locatedtothe
rightandleftoftheurethra,theyrun
Apoliticallyandanatomicallycorrect Someoftheslangtermsforthelittlepink
backtothepubicbone.Theinternal
name,thevulvaisthewholepackageof stalksometimescomparedtothepenis
portionoftheclitoris,thesetwo
thefemalegenitalia. includethelittlegirlintheboat,thebean,
sectionsareshapedlikeVs,connecting
themagicbutton,theflower,andthe
•Monsormonsveneris(Latinformound totheclitorisatthepointoftheV.
pearl,amongothers.Itistheonlyorgan
of Venus):Thissoftspotontopofthe
oneitherthemaleorthefemalebody •Thevestibularorclitoralbulbs:Astring
pubicboneissensitivetothetouch
designedsolelyforpleasure.Theclitoris ofbulb-shapedaggregationsoferectile
andniceforarousal,butstimulation
has8,000nerveendingsandoperates tissue,theclitoralbulbsextenddown
theregenerallywon’ttakeherto
withinnetworkof15,000nerveendings beneaththelabiaminora.Whena
climax.
thatservicetheentirepelvicregion. womanisaroused,theyfillwithblood,
•Labiamajora(largeouterlips):The Knowingthis,itwouldbenearly makingthevulvaswell.
labiamajoraisasomewhatsensitive impossibletohaveanorgasmthatis
•Frontcommissure:Averysensitiveand
areathatoverlaysandprotectsthe notclitoralinnature.
oftenoverlookedareaabovethebase
moredelicateinnerlayerofthevulva.
•Theclitoralhood:Thislittleoutgrowth oftheclitoralshaft,justbelowwhere
Theseouterlipsarecoveredwithpubic
orovergrowthofskincoversand thelabiamajorasmeet.
hair(thatmanywomenwaxorshave).
protectstheclitoralglans.Whena
Manywomenfindthatremovingthe •Thefourchette:Thebottomedgesof
womanbecomesaroused,theglans
hairincreasessensitivitytotouch. thelipsbeneaththevaginalentrance,
protrudesfromthehood,thoughin
neighboringtheperineum.
•Labiaminora(smallerinnerlips): somewomen,justbarely.
Thesemoresensitivelipsswelland
•Theclitoralglansorshaft:When The Vagina
changecolorwhenawomanbecomes
peoplerefertotheclitoris,theyare
aroused.Theyaremoreslenderin
usuallytalkingabouttheclitoralglans. Thevaginaistheelastic,muscularcanal
sizethantheouterlips,thoughthey
Thevastsystemofnervesconnecting connectingtheuterustotheoutsideof
sometimesextenddownpastthem.
theclitoristothevaginaallendinthe awoman’sbody.Babiescomeoutofit.
glans.Whatapotentlittlepieceof Penisesgointoit.Whenawomanis
genitalpropertythatis! aroused,hervaginaexpandsinwidth
andlengthandproduceslubrication,
thoughadditionallubemaybeneeded
ifsheisonsomemedicationsthatmay
drythevaginaorispostmenopausal.
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