Table Of Content“C learly a book where women take charge and men let
BLOW HIS MIND!
go, Dr. Sonia instructs dynamic scenarios in which both
DR. SONIA BORG earned her Ph.D. in
the giver and receiver of oral sex enjoy heightened
human sexuality and masters in public health
Great oral sex is an experience that can
from The Institute for Advanced Study of moments of power and surrender and the pure pizzazz
engage all the senses and thrill the body
Human Sexuality in San Francisco, and her of innovative pleasure—with each scene supported
from head to toe—if performed the right way.
masters degree in communication from San by accurate and positive sex information.”
Francisco State University. She is certifi ed as Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget goes beyond
—Charla Hathaway, author of Erotic Massage and
a clinical sexologist by the American College “Blow Job 101” to give you step-by-step
8 Erotic Nights, www.howintimacyworks.com
of Sexologists and is a member of The fellatio techniques and ideas that will bring
American Association of Sexuality Educators, your lover to his knees—and several other
Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). TECHNIQUES THAT WILL TAKE HIM mind-blowing positions.
Sonia has been featured on television and OVER THE EDGE!
While other oral sex books give à la carte tips
radio shows such as Discovery Channel
Your mother probably told you that the way to your man’s heart and instruction, Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget
Canada, Playboy Radio, Good Morning San
is through his stomach…actually it’s a few inches lower. This ORAL SEX offers incredible scenarios that will bring
Diego, and programs on KUSI in San Diego. ultimate oral sex guide teaches you all the tricks you need to
your lover to new heights of pleasure. Each
She is a sought-after speaker, educator, make fellatio fun, fantastic, and unforgettable. Doesn’t
experience is based around exciting and
everybody deserve a treat every once in a while?
author, and sex expert.
Oral Sex He’ll Never Forget gives 52 unique fellatio experi- creative techniques and positions. You’ll
HE’LL
ences from start to fi nish. You’ll learn how to combine positions, learn the secrets of stimulating hot spots
mouth moves, hand strokes, sex toys, seduction, and setting to
and prolonging excitement that take
create the ultimate oral sex experience. Surprise your lover with
oral sex from amazing to unforgettable.
something new and exciting, such as:
FORGET
The Rock Star BJ: His fantasy and (secretly) yours
The Deep Throat BJ: When you want to go all the way
The On-the-Rocks BJ: Toe-tingling sensations that will
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To my daughter, Ava Marie: may you grow up in a sex-positive world.
Text © 2009 Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H., M.A.
Photography © 2009 Quiver
First published in the USA in 2009 by
Quiver, a member of
Quayside Publishing Group
100 Cummings Center
Suite 406-L
Beverly, MA 01915-6101
www.quiverbooks.com
All rights reserved. No part of this book may be reproduced or utilized, in any form or
by any means, electronic or mechanical, without prior permission in writing from the
publisher. The Publisher maintains the records relating to images in this book required
by 18 USC 2257. Records are located at Rockport Publishers, Inc., 100 Cummings
Center, Suite 406-L, Beverly, MA 01915-6101.
A Note to Readers: This book contains the opinions and ideas of the author and is
intended for the use of informed and consenting adults. It’s not therapy; it’s fun.
Dr. Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.P.H., M.A. is a clinical sexologist, not a therapist or medical
doctor. Some of the practices and positions in this book may not be appropriate for
people with medical conditions or physical impairments.
Use your good judgment!
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Borg, Sonia.
Oral sex he’ll never forget : 52 positions and techniques guaranteed to blow your man
away / Sonia Borg.
p. cm.
ISBN-13: 978-1-59233-385-1
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1. Sex instruction for women. 2. Oral sex. 3. Male orgasm. I. Title.
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Cover and book design: Traffic
Book layout: Rachel Fitzgibbon
Photography: Richard Avery
Illustrations: Robert Brandt
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ORAL SEX
HE’LL NEVER
FORGET
52 POSITIONS & TECHNIQUES
GUARANTEED TO BLOW YOUR
MAN AWAY
Sonia Borg, Ph.D., M.A.
Founder of the Happing Endings Company
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CONTENTS
Introduction: This is Not the “Same Ole” Blow Job 006
But First, Basic Male Anatomy: You’ve Got to Know His Parts 008
THE FANTASY BJs 012
The Private Strip Club BJ 014
The Perfect Stranger BJ 018
The “Threesome” BJ 020
The Scent of a Woman BJ 022
The Porn Star BJ 024
The Goddess BJ 026
The Hump Day BJ 028
The Alter Ego BJ 030
The Old School BJ 032
The Special Delivery BJ 034
THE EXHIBITIONIST BJs 036
The Rock Star BJ 038
The Hummer BJ 040
The Dressing Room BJ 044
The Barroom BJ 046
The Mile High BJ 048
The Backyard BJ 050
The Great Escape BJ 052
THE D-I-Y BJs 054
Changing the Lightbulb BJ 056
The Spin Cycle BJ 058
The Shower BJ 060
The Clean As a Whistle BJ 062
The Take-Out BJ 064
THE FANCY BJs 066
The Birthday BJ 068
BJ on the Rocks 070
“Got Pearls?” BJ 072
The Mint-Flavored BJ 074
THE QUICKIE BJs 076
The Elevator BJ 078
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080 The Early Bird Special BJ
082 THE HEALING BJs
084 The Win/Win BJ
086 The Makeup BJ
088 The Mirrors BJ
090 The Hard Day BJ
092 The Prescription BJ
094 The Penis Whisperer BJ
096 THE LAZY BJs
098 The Guided BJ
100 The Quid Pro Quo BJ
102 The Penis Sleeve BJ
104 The Languid BJ
106 The Shallow Throat BJ
108 THE SPECIAL SKILLS BJs
110 The Yin-Yang BJ
112 The Yogi Delight BJ
114 The Bondage BJ
116 The Analingus BJ
118 The Deep Throat BJ
120 The Easy Deep Throat BJ
122 The P-Spot BJ
124 The Advanced P-Spot BJ
126 The Condom BJ
128 The Swallow BJ
130 THREE BJ GAMES
132 The Punch Buggy BJ Game
133 The Vegas BJ Game
134 The Simon Says BJ Game
137 Appendix I: A Man’s Forum
138 Appendix II: “Yes/No/Maybe” List
140 Appendix III: Resources
143 Acknowledgments
144 About the Author
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Introduction: This is Not
the “Same Ole” Blow Job
A blow job is one of the greatest gifts you can give a man. Some
women love doing it, and some don’t. Usually, they don’t because
they don’t feel “good” at it. Giving a good BJ is not a skill passed
down from generation to generation like a favorite family recipe, but
it can be learned. I will show you how.
There is a BJ here for every mood, from playful to soulmate
connecting. If you try one and don’t like it, try another . . . and
another . . . and another. Your man will love you for it.
Other books may teach you different mouth and hand strokes as I
do here. However, this book creates BJ scenarios that turn fellatio
into a sex event. If you’ve always wanted to be the kind of woman
who comes up with sexy games but have neither the time nor the
imagination, this book is for you. You will realize just how much you
can get out of performing fellatio on your man, including increased
sexual confidence, sexual satisfaction, and a greater sense of
your feminine power. You will experience the freshness of a new
relationship. And here’s the little secret that the lucky few know: it’s
hot—so hot that you might even have an orgasm just from giving
him a blow job.
Each scenario is complete with categories that will help you to
master the BJ. The category “Perfect the Move” offers ideas to
practice for the big event. Sex Facts are throughout the book
and are sure to add to your sexual knowledge. The category
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The “Scenario” includes the all important creativity and fantasy into
your sex event. “Last Minute Preparations” gives moves and lines
to actually pull off the scenario along with some fun little details.
The “Technique” gives you step by step, or play by play, of what
to do next. And finally, the category “The Sexpert Says” is rich in
real world info that is based on my own experience, observations
as a sexologist, and confessions from clients. This section includes
information about one of the most important organs in the sexual
experience: the brain. The notes will help you understand men and
give you a more holistic or big-picture view of male sexuality.
Be assured that there is nothing that compares to the warmth
of your breath—the wet, sucking of your mouth— the firmness of
your tongue . . .
Nothing says “I Love You” quite like a blow job . . . Nothing!
I sincerely hope that my book will give you the tools and inspiration
for rocking his word and becoming more intimately connected to
him. I also hope that you learn more about your own sexuality
and experience the confidence and personal power from a blow
job well done.
Wishing you a healthy and happy sex life!
xoxox,
Dr. Sonia
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But First, Basic Male Anatomy:
You’ve Got to Know His Parts
Although you have an up close and personal relationship with his penis
and testicles, you may not know how each part functions to create that
dynamic male sex organ. Before we get into blow jobs, here’s a quick
tutorial on his private and prized parts.
The Testicles (Testes or The Penis or Phallus • Foreskin (Prepuce)
Gonads) and Their Package (Dick, Cock, Prick, Throbbing An uncircumcised penis has loose skin
Manhood, and so forth) covering the head of the penis. The
Think of this area as his little production
head is not visible when the penis is
company. Like your ovaries, it produces His penis has two biological functions, flaccid, so to some it looks like a
the material necessary for propagating channeling urine out of the body and turtleneck sweater. In modern Western
the species, in his case, sperm. While ejaculating sperm-containing semen. (and some other) societies, the skin is
your sex hormones are primarily Composed of secondary fibrous removed at birth or shortly after in the
produced in smaller quantities in the connective tissue and smooth muscles, procedure known as circumcision.
uterus, his sex hormone, testosterone, the penis is mainly spongy (erectile)
comes primarily from this part of his tissue laced with veins and arteries that fill • Frenulum
body. This package contains: with blood when he is aroused. The skin The piece of tissue connecting the
head of the penis to the shaft is called
is thin and silky to the touch. The sections
• The Testicles (Balls)
the frenulum. The connecting line looks
of the penis are:
Held together by the baggy skin of
like a V on the underside of the penis.
the scrotum, his testicles are located • The Shaft (Rod) Often neglected in fellatio, the frenulum
behind his penis. They not only The main body of his organ, the shaft is very sensitive. Don’t overlook it!
produce testosterone and sperm, they connects the head and the scrotum.
also store it. When he gets excited, his This is the power part of the penis—the • Corona (Ridge)
balls rise closer to his penis, making area that becomes engorged with The aptly named corona is that ridge of
the path to ejaculation more efficient. blood during arousal. As you already flesh where the head of the penis rises
above the shaft. It looks like a crown,
know, it is capable of amazing growth
• The Scrotum (The Sack)
hence the name “corona.” You
when properly inspired.
The scrotum is a soft, delicate, baggy
probably give it a lot of attention when
sack of skin protecting his testicles. Its • The Head (Glans) you suck the head. Irresistible, isn’t it?
primary function is maintaining body The big, beautiful head rides proudly
temperature conducive to the survival atop the shaft, where it resembles a
The Forgotten Zone
of sperm. Ever wonder why his balls helmet. This is the most sensitive
shrink up in the cold? The skin of the part of the penis. You may be squeamish about going
scrotum tightens, pulling the testicles there. Or he may be the one who shies
up closer to his body for the heat. away from contact below the balls. Some
may be shy, but this is rich sexual
territory. It includes the following.
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