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Oooooh ... Say it Again: Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction and
Aural Sex can be described as 60% self-help and social commentary for men
regarding their pursuit of short-term and/or non-monogamous (i.e., "casual")
sexual companionship, and 40% detailed examples of erotically explicit dialogue
that author Alan Roger Currie used in his real-life verbal seduction experiences
with women. Readers will enjoy Currie's no-holds-barred writing style and
entertaining, enlightening, and honest advice and wisdom.
Oooooh… Say it Again
Mastering the Fine Art of Verbal Seduction
and Aural Sex
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Copyright © 2011 Alan Roger Currie
ISBN: 978-1-61434-885-6
All rights reserved. No part of this publication may be reproduced,
stored in a retrieval system, or transmitted in any form or by any means,
electronic, mechanical, recording or otherwise, without the prior
written permission of the author.
Printed in the United States of America.
Mode One Enterprises, Inc.
2011
http://www.modeone.net
Other books and paperbacks by Author Alan Roger Currie:
Mode One: Let the Women Know What You’re REALLY Thinking
Mode One – HARDCORE (eBook only)
Upfront and Straightforward: Let the Manipulative Game Players
Know What You’re REALLY Thinking
Mode One – Semantics and Scenarios (eBook only)
Introduction
Sad to say, very few men will purchase a self-help book,
particularly one about love, long-term romantic relationships, or
marriage. Women are overwhelmingly the primary buyers of
self-help books from the dating and relationships genre. When
it comes to discussions about conversing with and interacting
with women, men primarily care about sex.
Just about all single heterosexual men want to know about
one or more of these three things: 1) how to be better at sex
(e.g., how to maintain an erection for a longer period of time
before orgasm, how to cause a woman to ‘squirt’ or experience
more orgasms, etc.); 2) how to improve the quality or quantity
of their female sex partners; and 3) how to get a woman
aroused and in their bed without investing too much time or too
much money. If a book offers advice related to one of these
three areas, there is a good chance that a man will pick it up.
This book primarily offers advice related to issue #3, and to
a lesser extent, issue #2. I believe there are more than enough
books on the market currently that emphasize issue #1, so I do
not really touch on that area at all.
As a reader, the books that inspire me the most and that I
tend to learn the most from are those that 1) ask the reader a
really good question (or series of questions), and 2) proceed to
provide knowledge, wisdom, well thought out logic and valid
opinions, and even relevant data and statistics, that is
supported by documented research that attempts to thoroughly
answer that question (or questions) to the best of the author’s
ability.
As an aspiring screenwriter and filmmaker living in Los
Angeles, I would evaluate the vast majority of my favorite films
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with those criteria in mind. “What primary question is this film
posing? And what answers to that question is this film providing
to viewers?”
Take the 1987 film, Fatal Attraction starring Academy
Award winning actor Michael Douglas and Glenn Close. The
question this movie asked its audience, and in particular the
male audience, is this:
“What are some of the unforeseen repercussions and
potential consequences of having an adulterous weekend affair
with someone who you know very little, if anything about?”
Just about every scene and major plot point in that film was
either directly or indirectly related to providing a visual answer
to that question.
As a writer, this is the format I use. Ask a compelling
question, and then answer it in the most entertaining,
enlightening and intellectually thorough manner as possible.
If you have read my previous paperbacks, you’ll see that in
each book I posed one central question to my readers, and
then I used each individual chapter in each book to provide my
brand of knowledge, wisdom, philosophies and assertions that
attempted to answer that central question.
Central Question #1:
“How does the fear of being rejected by a woman and
the fear of being criticized or disliked by a woman inhibit
the ability of a single heterosexual man to approach a
woman of interest, initiate a conversation with her, and
ultimately express his romantic or sexual desires, interests
and intentions?”
The answer: Mode One: Let the Women Know What
You’re REALLY Thinking (the title of my first paperback)
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Central Question #2:
“Alan, how does communicating with members of the
opposite sex in a ‘Mode One’ manner help you quickly and
effectively identify or prevent ‘manipulative head games?’
How can I distinguish when a man or woman sincerely
shares the same romantic or sexual desires, interests and
intentions that I have, versus a man or woman who is
really intending to deceive me, mislead me, manipulate me,
and toy with my emotions?”
The answer: Upfront and Straightforward: Let the
Manipulative Game Players Know What You’re REALLY
Thinking (the title of my second paperback)
I do not possess a Ph.D. in counseling or clinical
psychology, marriage therapy, sex therapy, or any other related
field. I have earned my credibility as an author and dating
coach simply by having a history of offering advice to readers
and clients that helped them solve their problems and
ultimately improve their love life, sex life, and overall social life.
Arguably my best advice to male clients has been in the
areas of 1) helping single heterosexual men overcome their
fear of being rejected so that they will soon start approaching
more women of interest and initiate a conversation with them,
and 2) helping these same men overcome their fear of being
criticized by women or their fear of receiving negative reactions
from women so that they will soon express their romantic and
sexual desires, interests and intentions to women of interest in
a more self-assured, upfront, forthright manner.
Even though I am not a licensed psychologist or therapist, I
have many clients in various countries who pay me by the hour
for advice and consultations. I receive positive testimonials full
of appreciation and gratitude on a monthly, if not weekly basis.
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Some people in society say that “sex is a very controversial
subject, and always will be.” I half-agree, and half-disagree.
More specifically, it is kinky sex and promiscuous sex
that typically provokes strong opinions from many. There is no
real controversy regarding prudish, monogamous-minded John
Doe having sex at 10:00 PM in the master bedroom with his
prudish, monogamous-minded wife Mary Ann Doe.
Very few men and women want their sexual preferences,
sexual habits, and sexual activities to become public
knowledge when they are engaging in sex that they know will
be perceived as kinky or polyamorous and promiscuous.
My attitude is, once you are 18 years of age, you can do
whatever you choose to sexually as long as you are totally
aware of all of the potential emotional, social and health-related
consequences and repercussions that may accompany your
choices and behavior.
Many men and women in American society are naturally
hypocritical, duplicitous, self-righteous and judgmental when it
comes to issues related to sex. Remind yourself of this on a
regular basis, otherwise you will eventually become agitated.
I have been criticized, many times very harshly, by some
conservative and deeply religious types for not discouraging
single heterosexual men from engaging in premarital sex or
pursuing women for short-term non-monogamous sex.
I am not a minister or a preacher. I feel I have done my part
by encouraging men to avoid being dishonest with women, and
to avoid engaging in manipulative ‘head games’ with women.
I have said it before, and I will say it (repeatedly) again: If
you are a man, and you know you just want short-term non-
monogamous (casual) sex with a woman, just TELL WOMEN
THAT FROM THE GET-GO. This allows the woman to make
her own choice and decide whether or not to sleep with you.
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Personally, I have no issue with men and women engaging
in any form of sex they choose, as long as it is mutually
consensual sexual activity, and the man and woman involved
are being upfront and straightforwardly honest with each other
about their long-term desires, interests and intentions.
As I discussed in my two previous paperbacks, Mode One
and Upfront and Straightforward, anytime you are dishonest or
misleading about your interest … or your lack of interest … in
some form of romantic or sexual relationship, you are engaging
in manipulative ‘head games.’
Why are there so many manipulative ‘head games’
employed by both men and women related to dating and
relationships and the pursuit of sexual companionship?
Here is a recap of the major games that members of both
genders tend to engage in:
Men’s primary manipulative ‘head games’:
- Men who approach women, and give them the misleading
impression that they want a sexual relationship that is both
long-term and monogamous, when in reality, these men want a
sexual relationship that is short-term or non-monogamous.
- Men who approach women, and give them the misleading
impression that they are only interested in a platonic friendship,
when they know deep-down they are interested in some form of
romantic or sexual companionship.
- Men who offer women financial and non-financial “favors”
under the guise of being ‘generous’ and ‘helpful,’ when in
reality, they are expecting the women they are helping out to
‘reward’ them with sex.
- Men who give their spouses or long-term romantic
companions the misleading impression that they are “in love”
and being monogamous to their partner, when in actuality, they
are being unfaithful and having sex with “women on the side.”
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Women’s primary manipulative ‘head games’:
- Women who interact with men under the guise of being
genuinely interested in them romantically or sexually, when in
reality, they simply want flattering attention, entertaining social
companionship, financial and non-financial favors, or a
dependable, empathetic listening ear when they are frustrated
or bored.
- Women who ‘cock tease’ men on a regular or semi-regular
basis for their own egotistical satisfaction.
- Women who date and marry men primarily for the man’s
level of social status, level of education, career success, or
wealth, but in reality, they have no real romantic feelings for
these men or no real sexual attraction for these men, and
ultimately, they end up being unfaithful to these men and
having sex with “men on the side.”
- Women who pretend to be genuinely interested in a
casual sex relationship with a man, when in reality, they really
want a relationship that is long-term, emotionally profound, and
monogamous.
Some in society say, “Most unwanted pregnancies come
from short-term non-monogamous (casual) sex.” Bullshit.
Statistics do not back that up. Most of the women I have met
who had babies out of wedlock got pregnant while they were in
a long-term monogamous “boyfriend-girlfriend” relationship.
Some in society say, “Sexually transmitted diseases (STDs)
are more frequently passed around because of casual sex.”
Again, I say bullshit. Men and women who fail to practice safe
sex and are sexually irresponsible engage in long-term
monogamous relationships just as much, if not more, than they
do short-term non-monogamous (casual) sex.
Adult film stars are very promiscuous, and they also have
some of the lowest rates of STDs of any man or woman in
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