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Chastity
A Guide for Keyholders
Lucy Fairbourne
Lucy Fairborne
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Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
Male
Chastity
A Guide for Keyholders
Lucy Fairbourne
Lucy Fairborne
Take Care, not Risks!
This book is for consenting adults who recognize that the adult activities
they enjoy in private require correspondingly adult levels of responsibility
and common sense.
As with any erotic activity that involves physical restraint, misuse of a
chastity device can be dangerous. The author and publisher of this book
accept no liability for the consequences of any such misuse.
If you are uncertain of how to use a chastity device (or anything else)
safely, refrain from using it until you have clarified your questions and
concerns with the supplier or manufacturer. If the supplier or
manufacturer refuses to stand behind their product by providing
information on its safe use, then choose an alternative device.
Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
Lucy Fairborne
Male Chastity: the practice of securing a consenting adult male by means
of a lockable chastity device such that the chastened male’s sexual release
can be achieved only with the keyholder’s involvement and consent.
Keyholder: the one who holds the above male’s key.
Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
Lucy Fairborne
Preface
The male libido is very different from the female. It is almost entirely
focused on the sex act – which, for a heterosexual male, generally means
engaging in sexual intercourse with an agreeable female to the point of
ejaculation.
Denied access to an agreeable female (or if she is temporarily
unavailable), most males resort to masturbation and sexual fantasy as a
'safety valve' to release the tension caused by their biological drives.
From the point of view of the perpetuation of the species, such a
highly-focused sex drive is natural and desirable; how else were men
supposed to 'Go Forth and Multiply'? Unfortunately, the tendency that
worked so well when it came to spreading humanity across the face of the
planet can turn out to be a problem in a modern loving relationship.
Do you recall how your man behaved, back when he was courting
you? Wasn’t he more attentive, more romantic, more concerned with
pleasing you? Did he ever forget to call you, back then? Have you ever
wondered where that attentiveness came from, or asked yourself where it
went?
It came from his natural sexual tension, and it most likely left
through that safety valve I mentioned before.
Without a doubt your man liked you; without a doubt he loved
you; without a doubt he desired you. And that desire was based on sexual
tension, on the physical rewards you could offer him – rewards that were
temporarily denied, although he knew they were right there within his
grasp, if only he could win you...
That’s what desire is.
Think back to the last time you and your man made love. Was he
as passionate as he used to be in the early days? Did his interest wane as
soon as he’d had his climax? Did he roll over and start snoring? Did his
ability and inclination to please you fade as soon as his libido was
satisfied?
Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
That scenario might be all-too-common, but it’s not inevitable.
This book describes an alternative that can lead to a return to romance and
a re-kindling of desire, and it involves taking physical control of your
man’s opportunities for sexual arousal and orgasm.
If you can manage this, you will have harnessed his libido, which
is the most primal of the forces that drive him. You will be able to ramp
him up and bring him back down, tease him and please him and delight
him (but not necessarily to the extent he would like).
You will – quite literally – hold the key that can unlock his nature;
that can help you understand him and help him understand you and your
needs. You will find that he becomes eager – desperate, even – to fulfill
your desires.
And just as importantly, with a man who is amenable to these
ideas, you will find that you have fulfilled wishes he never knew he had,
and satisfied his own deepest needs as well.
Lucy Fairborne
PART ONE
INTRODUCTION
AND
ORIENTATION
Male Chastity: A Guide for Keyholders
