Table Of ContentISLAMIC WAY
OF
LIVING
(An English Translation of the Book
Islami Muashrat)
Dr. Syed Abdul Wadud
ISLAMIC WAY OF LIVING
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ACKNOWLEDGMENTS
To  take  this  project  to  its  completion  I  would  like  to 
thank  Maqbool  Mahmood  Farhat.  I  cannot  show  enough 
appreciation for his full dedication and constant hard work, 
without which this publication would not have been possible. 
Mrs Aqila Zaman (M.A.), Michigan University USA deserves 
many  thanks  for  her  help  in  providing  valuable  advice 
regarding the contents. Last but not least sincere thanks are 
due to Mohammad Aslam Qureshi of Elm Park, Essex, UK, 
who fully funded this project. 
Prof. Dr. Zahida Durrani
         Executive Head
      Tolu-e-Islam Trust.
DEDICATION
This  translation  is  dedicated  to  the  author  Ghulam 
Ahmad  Parwez  who  strived  to  understand  the  Quran  and 
convey its message to others.
Dr. Syed Abdul Wadud originally translated this book from 
the  Urdu  “Islami  Muashrat”  by  Ghulam  Ahmad  Parwez, 
published in Lahore, Pakistan.
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Islamic Way Of Living                                       Preface
PREFACE
The future of a nation depends on the upbringing of its 
younger generation. Muslims everywhere are concerned that 
their children may go astray under the influence of a media, 
poor social values and other beliefs that go against Quranic 
teachings. Therefore the introduction and teaching of Quranic 
values is important today as it ever was.
However, this book is not just for young Muslims. People 
of  all  ages,  and  beliefs  can  benefit  from  an  insight  into  the 
Quranic values.
The work I have produced is not an exact translation of 
the  book  Islami  Muashrat  by  late  Allama  Ghulam  Ahmad 
Parwez,  but  an  exposition  of  this  excellent  work  in  Urdu 
language. It comprises Quranic injunctions that show the way 
to the formation of an Islamic society. It is not a philosophical 
treatise but a description in simple terms meant for the young, 
as  well  as  for  those  who  have  neither  the  time  nor  the 
inclination to go into details. 
Hopefully this introduction will ignite their fire and start 
a quest for deeper knowledge and understanding.
          Syed Abdul Wadud
DISCLAIMER
This  work  is  a  translation  of  the  original  Urdu  book  ‘Islami 
Muashrat’  and as  such any ambiguity  is  the  responsibility of  the 
translator and not the original author.
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Islamic Way Of Living                                       Contents
ISLAMIC WAY OF LIVING
Foreword (Paigham Mustafa)     vii
Chapter 1: Certain Basic Facts      1
lWhat is Islam?     2
lThe Difference between man-made laws 
and God-made laws      4
lWhat is Eieman (belief)?      5
lRabubiyyat      6
lHow an Islamic Society is Established      7
lNo Small Matters      9
Chapter 2: Basic Principles      10
lRespect for Humanity      11
lPersonal Responsibility      13
Chapter 3: Personal Qualities      15 
lDiscipline     16
lPractical Life      17
lAn Honest Day's Work      18
lSpending     19
lFood and Drink     21
lGood Foods     22
lExtravagance     23
lEating     23
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lBeauty of Life      23
lDress     24
lBeauty and Proportion     24
lHealth and Cleanliness      25
lIntoxicants and  Gambling      26
lConversation      28
lIdle Talk     30
lVulgarity      30
lArrogance     32
lRumours     33
lIntellectually Blind     34
lEducation      35
Chapter 4: Mutual Contact      37
lGreetings      38
lMuslim Greetings     38
lDecent Behavior      40
lCooperation      42
lMutual Consultation      43
lKeep Promises     45
lLoans and Debts     46
lRepayment of Debt     47
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lUsury     47
lTrade      48
lTrading Standards     49
lJustice      50
lJustice to Enemies     51
lNational Trust      52
lEvidence     53
lFalse Statement      55
lBribery      55
lSocial Etiquette     56
lEtiquette of Assembly     57
lPermission to Leave     58
lInvitation to Meal     58
lMiscellaneous Matters     59
lEnvy     59
lBack Biting     60
lSpying     60
lSticks and Stones….      61
lDo Not Spread Evil     61
lSlander     62
lSuspicion     62
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lRidiculing Divine Laws     63
lVain Talk     63
lAnger     64
lPardon     65
lSelf-reform     66
lReforming Fellow Beings     67
lPay Attention to Good Advice     67
lHypocrisy     68
Chapter 5: Family Life      71
lResponsibility of an Elder Member      72
lHusband and wife     73
lMarriage      73
lDivision of labour      75
lBalanced living      76
lChildren      77
lParents      78
lAncestors     79
lObedience to Ancestors      79
lRelatives      80
lEmployees      81
lNeighbours      81
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lFriends      82
lOrphans      83
lThe Needy     84
lThe Beggars     85
lWayfarers     86
lRights of a Wayfarer      87
Chapter 6: Collective life of Muslims      88
lSectarianism     90
lBrotherhood Amongst Believers     91
lHow to Get Rid of Sectarianism     92
lIslamic Social Order     92
lNo Parties     93
lThe World Muslims      93
lHumanity as a Whole      94
Chapter 7: Relationship with Non-Believers      96
lEqual Treatment For All      97
lMeaning of the Word Kafir      97
lDo Not Revile The Idols     98
lThe Protection of Places of Worship of 
Non-Muslims      98
lThe Great Men of Non-Muslims     99
lRespect For Allah's Messengers      100
lFreedom of Belief      101
lSummation     104
lGlossary     107
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FOREWORD
In a diverse culture such as the one we live in today, it can 
be  difficult  for  young  people  to  know  good  values.  This  is 
especially true when Marketing Magnates, using the power of 
mass media, bombard their consumerist messages from every 
direction and every minute of the day. Indeed, it can be hard to 
recognise the truth when every belief is presented as tolerable 
and every lifestyle promoted as acceptable, if not desirable.
This book, Islamic Way of Living, in its small way would 
like to introduce the higher values given in the Quran. Absolute 
values  in  a  changing  world  lay  the  foundation  of  a  better, 
greater person. As moral beings it is our duty to do things which 
improve  our  lives  and  of  those  around  us.  It  is  the  Quranic 
permanent  values  that  help  us  shine  in  a  world  eclipsed  by 
selfish ideals.
This is the third edition, the first published in 1987 and the 
second in 1991. Each edition has sought to present the Quranic 
principles in an easy to grasp language. It is hoped that this is a 
marked  improvement  of  the  previous  attempts.  The  verses 
from the Quran have not just been translated but an exposition 
has been made to make the concepts comfortably understood.
If we can get young people to apply the Quranic standards 
practically  in  their  daily  lives,  then  we  have  achieved  our 
purpose.
Paigham Mustafa, Editor.
Glasgow, November 2008
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