Irresistible: How To Attract Women With Ease

143 Pages·2018·0.65 MB·English

by  Avery Hayden

Avery Hayden
Irresistible
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Contents
What Makes A Man Irresistible?
Introduction
The Invisible Sticking Point
Approach Anxiety
Never Run Out Of Things To Say Again
How To Reach The Social Hook Point
How To Reach The Sexual Hook Point
Taking A Girl Home
The Power of Field Reports
Conclusion
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Appendix
How To Be An Attractive Man
How To Get Laid On The First Date
How To Fuck A Girl Well
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What Makes A Man Irresistible?
You’ve been lied to. We all have.
Throughout our lives, we have been told that to succeed with women you
need three things: looks, money, and status.
Our society taught us this. Our parents taught us this. Our entire upbringing
taught us that our ability to attract women is out of our hands.
Supposedly, if you want to date beautiful women, your best bet is to become
a famous actor or, at least, get rich.
Don’t get me wrong, being high-status, rich, and good-looking will all help
you attract the attention of women.
But there’s another way. There’s a way to attract women with not the size of
your wallet, but the power of your personality.
Is There A Conspiracy?
Why does society lie to us about what it takes to succeed with women?
It’s not some global conspiracy, no one is intentionally deceiving us.
We’re lied to because it’s easier to think that success with women is
determined by factors outside of our control like money and status.
It’s so much easier for a man to think, “Well, I’m not good-looking, so
there’s no point in going out and approaching beautiful women,” then it is to
think, “Okay, if I go approach attractive women on a regular basis, I can learn
from what works and what doesn’t to figure out how to come across as confident
and attractive.”
You’ve been taught that if you want to succeed with women, you need to be
famous or unusually good-looking, because it’s much easier to think that success
with women is something outside of your immediate control than it is to take
responsibility for the quality of your dating life. That’s why the whole world
thinks you can’t just go up to a girl and win her over with your personality.
You can attract even the most beautiful women with ease. But the first step is
to decide for yourself that it is possible, despite what the world has told you.
The Ultimate Aphrodisiac
What could possibly be more attractive to women than an impressive salary or a
perfect jawline?
Your behavior.
Women are literally wired to respond to certain behaviors with sexual
arousal.
The human brain developed over the course of millions of years. The brain
of a modern woman is barely different from the brain of a cavewoman 100,000
years ago.
100,000 years ago there were no Rolex watches or Lamborghinis, women
couldn’t determine whether a man was attractive based on the stuff he possessed.
No, they had to determine whether a man was attractive based on how he
behaved.
The male brain evolved to be sensitive to a woman’s physical appearance
because a man can sleep with a new woman every 15 minutes without risking
anything.
The female brain evolved to be ultra-sensitive to a man’s behavior, because
if a woman had sex with the wrong guy, she’d be risking a 9 month pregnancy
and a child. The child of a socially weak or incompetent man would be far less
likely to make it in the world than the child of a confident, assertive man.
Because of this, women evolved to rely less on visual cues that indicate a
man is attractive, and more on the behavioral cues that indicate a man is
attractive.
That’s why the female brain is designed to respond to confidence more than
anything else.
If you approach a woman with genuine confidence, she won’t be able to help
but be attracted to you. She will feel in her bones that you are an alpha-male, and
that she’d be lucky to date you.
This confidence cannot be faked. You must develop it by interacting with
women in the real world. This book will guide you through the process of
becoming deeply self-confident and naturally attractive to women.
Follow the steps laid out for you in Irresistible, and you will be able to attract
women with ease.
Introduction
Welcome to Irresistible. You are reading this book because want to attract and
date the highest quality women.
Depending on your starting point, this may sound like a fantasy reserved for
famous, rich, model-looking guys.
Just 7 years ago, that’s what I would have thought. I was 19 and still hadn’t
even kissed a girl. To make matters worse, I was diagnosed with social anxiety -
it was so bad that simply going to a public place would give me a panic attack.
My social skills were sub-par: I was the least confident person I knew. But I
was desperate to change. I was willing to do anything to become attractive to
women.
My only guidance came in the form of books like “The Game ” and “The
Mystery Method ”, and while these books inspired me to take action, they
actually lead me to become even less attractive to women.
I thought the techniques in these books would make women like me. I
thought I could make up for my lack of self-confidence by insulting a girl with a
well timed “neg”. I thought I could capture a girl’s imagination with an “opinion
opener,” and impress her with “DHV” storytelling.
None of those techniques worked. If anything, they repelled women more
than they attracted them. This is because what you say to women isn’t nearly as
important as who you are . No matter what I said, I was still a deeply insecure
guy who was trying to compensate for that insecurity with tricks and techniques.
It took me years of trial and error, but I eventually became the attractive man
I had always dreamed of being. Today, I can walk up to a beautiful woman,
create instant attraction, and start a sexual relationship with her if I want to.
And you can become that guy, too. In fact, if you follow the advice in this
book, you can do it in significantly less time than it took me. You won’t need to
make many of the mistakes I made - because this book will teach you how to
make rapid progress towards your goals.
Blind Spots
Why do most guys fail to get the dating life they want? Is it because they’re not
good looking or rich enough? No. (I’ll explain why soon.)
Most guys are bad with women not because of something they lack, but
because of something they don’t see . These men have what’s known as a blind
spot.
A blind spot is something that prevents you from getting the results you want
- without your conscious awareness.
Let’s look at an example of what a blind spot looks like:
Imagine you want to build 20 pounds of muscle. You find a workout plan
that promises to increase your muscle mass. Then you buy a gym membership
and start lifting weights 5 times a week.
You follow this plan religiously. Weeks go by, then months. You expect that
when you look in the mirror, the scrawny guy you once were will be replaced
with the body of an Adonis.
To your chagrin, this doesn’t happen. Even after 6 months of training,
you’ve barely gained any muscle.
So, you double down and work out with even more frequency and intensity.