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—Bhante Yogavacara Rahula,
author of One Night’s Shelter: An Autobiography of an American Buddhist Monk
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QUIET IS MIGHT. SOLITUDE IS STRENGTH. INTROVERSION IS POWER.
HELGOE
Laurie Helgoe, PhD, is a writer,
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PRAISE FOR
INTROVERT POWER
“This is such a good book! Laurie Helgoe has created an
important guide to embracing one's inner life and claiming it
as a rich source of power, creativity, and connectedness.
Through concise yet pithy examples and exercises, she shows
how to celebrate introversion and support yourself to thrive—
shamelessly!”
—Camille Maurine, author of Meditation Secrets for Women
and Meditation 24/7, creator of the “MovingTheater” process
“Laurie Helgoe’s Introvert Power is a long overdue look at the
power of introversion.We shouldn’t think something is wrong
with us if we shun the sometimes chaotic life of an extrovert.
Many of the great intellectual, artistic, philosophical, and reli-
gious thinkers were introverts. Introversion can connect us to
the source of our Being so we may remain grounded as we
work in the world. If you have introvert inclinations and are
doubtingyourself,thisisamustread.Orifyouknowsomeone
whoexhibitsintrovertsymptoms,readthisbookbeforecalling
the shrink.”
—BhanteYogavacaraRahula,authorofOneNight’sShelter:An
Autobiography of an American Buddhist Monk
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INTROVERT
POWER
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INTROVERT
POWER
WHY YOUR
INNER LIFE IS YOUR
HIDDEN STRENGTH
Laurie Helgoe, PhD
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To Catherine, midwife to my introversion, ten years
ago today.
To Barron,The One, twenty-five years into the best
decision we’ve made.
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Believe nothing.
No matter where you read it,
Or who said it,
Even if I have said it,
Unless it agrees with your own reason
And your own common sense.
—Buddha
