How To Last Longer In Bed: A practical new approach for men to radically transform their lovemaking

123 Pages·2017·0.66 MB·English

by  Nick Hudis

HOW TO LAST LONGER IN BED
A Practical New Approach for Men to Radically Transform Their
Lovemaking

By

Nick Hudis MA, Dip CH, Dip T, CPNLP
Mentor and Sexuality Coach
How to Last Longer In Bed
A Practical New Approach for Men to Radically Transform Their Lovemaking
Copyright © 2017 by Nick Hudis
All rights reserved. This book or any portion thereof may not be reproduced or
used in any manner whatsoever without the express written permission of the
publisher except for the use of brief quotations in a book review.
Printed in the United Kingdom
First Printing, 2017
ISBN -13: 978-1546534228
ISBN – 10: 1546534229
www.nickhudis.com
Table of Contents
Foreword
SECTION 1
Chapter 1
Introduction
Chapter 2
Client Success Stories
Chapter 3
How to Use This Book
SECTION 2
Chapter 4
Get Control of Caveman
Chapter 5
Mastering Your Ejaculatory Cycle
Chapter 6
Reining in Your Inner Little Boy
Chapter 7
The Mind of Ejaculation
Chapter 8
Change Your Expectations about Sex
SECTION 3
Chapter 9
The Theatre of the Mind
SECTION 4
Chapter 10
Calm Body Calm Mind
Chapter 11
Wisdom from the ancient Chinese Master Lovers
SECTION 5
Chapter 12
Solo Practice Programme
Chapter 13
Gaining Ejaculatory Freedom with Your Partner
SECTION 6
Chapter 13
Summary
About Nick Hudis
Seeking Help
Foreword
This book could not have been written without the inspiration, support and
advice of many people. I’d like to mention just a few of them.
My teachers in Taoist healing, martial and sexual arts: Sifu Raymond Towers,
Master She Yu Hong, and Master Ma Bao Gou. Many years ago, Master Ma did
my I Ching horoscope and predicted I would have three lovers and write many
books. So far, life is proving him right!
My tantric teachers, particularly Shakti Malan, who, when I remarked that
someone should do for men what her Female Sexual Awakening book did for
women, said, “that’s your job, Nick”. This book is part of that commitment.
The teachers who I have only known through books and recordings. The spirit of
such great men as Maxwell Maltz, Bernie Zeibergeld, Herb Goldberg, Robert
Maurer and others runs through this book. I walk humbly in their footsteps.
The women who have blessed me with the gift of intimacy on this life journey of
loving and learning.
The many men I have worked with as 1:1 clients and in groups and workshops.
Your stories, your challenges and your commitment to grow and embody your
fullness as men are a constant inspiration and lesson to me.
Last but not least, Kalyani Ma Mukti with whom I share so much and who came
close to locking me in a room until I finished this book. Without her
unconditional love and faith in me, this book would be no more than a few
scribbled notes and an unfulfilled dream.
A Note to Gay Men
This book is written from a straight perspective. I write mainly from personal
experience, and the only experience I have of sexual intimacy is as a straight
man. I do not seek to be homocentric but in many long conversations with gay
friends I have come to the conclusion that the assumption that many sexual
educators make, that the dynamics of straight sexuality can be mapped directly
onto gay sexuality, is false. Some things we have in common, some things are
the unique gift of gay men. I would not presume to lecture you on something I
have no personal experience of.
SECTION 1
INTRODUCTION
Chapter 1
Introduction
What You Can Learn From This Book
This short book teaches you exactly what you need to know and do to last longer
in bed. It offers a proven step by step solution to premature ejaculation. It offers
a way to be free from anxiety about ejaculation and have rock steady confidence
sexually. It opens a gateway to great sex. It presents an approach that I call
Ejaculatory Freedom. Ejaculatory freedom is just that, freedom, having choice
about when, or if you ejaculate during love making.
This programme set out in this book is unique. You will not find anything else
like it. Here is why:
• It places equal emphasis on creating a positive mind-set and developing
advanced physical skill. Most other approaches are either
psychotherapeutic or just rehash the old “stop-go” method beloved by sex
therapists.
• It uses the same cutting edge coaching techniques I use with my 1:1
coaching clients to upgrade your mind-set and skills towards true
confidence in bed.
• It goes beyond curing premature ejaculation and opens the door to true
ejaculatory freedom and sexual mastery by simplifying techniques handed
down from ancient Tantric and Taoist sex manuals and making them
relevant and usable by you as a 21st century man.
• Everything in the programme has been “road tested” by me personally
and by my clients. It works!