Table Of ContentThe Tao of Flirting: 10 critical secrets
men should know about how to flirt
on
Robert Young
PUBLISHED BY:
Robert Young
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Table of Contents
Introduction: Welcome
Chapter1: The Journey Begins
Chapter2: Understanding Women
Chapter3: Self Development
Chapter4: Confidence
Chapter5: Improving Appearance
Chapter6: Fear of Rejection
Chapter7: Be Choosy
Chapter8: Flirting: The Game
Chapter9: Get noticed
Chapter10: Conversation
Chapter11: Make the Move
Chapter12: Things not to Do
Introduction: Welcome
At first we would like to thank you for making this your own. As a man you are
to dream a dream of having a hot beautiful sexy girl as your girlfriend. You
might be rich, smart, intelligent or good looking still you can’t just ask a
beautiful lady for a date without convincing her that you deserve her. If you do
so, you will find the chance of becoming successful very low. This book can be
the guideline for you that may help you to make her believe that either she is for
you or you deserve her. It does not mean that I am asking you to believe that it is
a book of magic words. I am not saying that just after purchasing this book
thousands of beautiful girls will jump after you and you will be courting them
one after another. The reality is that this book will tell you what you need to do
and what you need not do to flirt the girl you want. You, yourself will have to
apply those methods where they matter.
Another point is that you must know that in order to have a date or a courting
you have to flirt with your desire girl. If you were dependent on your bank
account, smartness or look you would have not bought this book.
I hope this book is going to provide you with every theory and procedure to flirt
the beautiful girl you desire. This book is mainly on flirting with a girl. It also
highlights on how a man should improve himself so that he can be noticed by
beautiful women. We have also tried our utmost to let the readers know what
kind of women should be picked. As you have to pick the woman up who is a
perfect match for you and who can provide you with everything you want from a
gorgeous lady.
So, the book is quite capable of acting as the guideline for a man to take him
closer to his dream girl and to flirt with her.
Chapter1: The Journey Begins
Flirting with a woman can be a long journey. Its length never matters too much,
if you become successful at last. There are some men who do not understand
form where the journey should get started. They often make late. Every man
loves to have a chat with the woman he likes. The chat may just consist of
formal greetings like “Hi” and “Hello”. Still the chat can bring a lot of good
feelings for him. At the same time he must keep in his mind that his journey of
flirting with her begins with these formal greetings. If your conversations goes
on and on consisting only of vocative greetings, she might just put your name in
her list of friends. She may think this guy is only interested in making mere
friendships. So you got to make an attempt to impress her at your first glance. It
is very helpful for you to make a date. If you start flirting with a woman just
after getting introduced to her, you can directly send the message containing
your intention. You have to tell her directly or indirectly that you are not talking
to her only for making friendship. You are demanding something more. You are
asking her for a date. As a result, she will think about you in a different manner
than she thinks about other guys. Then you can use all your tricks on her. As she
has already had a different view on you, now your tricks of flirting will be
proven more capable of convincing her for a date. So, your journey will take off
with a great hope.
In the beginning of your journey you might not get a warm welcome from the
lady of your dream. You have to be calm and cool. You cannot let her know how
much you are trying to flirt with her. Flirting is a process in which at the end of
the day the girl becomes desperate for a date. So, do not spoil your hard work by
committing too many wrong steps.
Chapter2: Understanding Women
Word is that women are very mysterious. To convince her as your date, you have
to go through this very mystery. The fact is that men are almost unaware of what
a woman wants. Without knowing her desire or want, it is quite impossible to
flirt with her. More or less women know very much about a man’s desire. They
know that it is their beauty that is the basic demand of men. That is why they are
always keen to make themselves beautiful. A hot chick or a hot girl knows very
well that her pretty face and sexy shape are enough to make a young man run
after her.
There is no doubt that to flirt with a girl you must know what she wants, desires
and needs. Without knowing these things you can’t read her. It will become
harder for you to impress her. You can’t hope a date with a beautiful girl unless
she is impressed. For this reason, the first chapter of this book is designed with
things that are required to understand the lady who you desire.
What women want in a man
They Demand Respect: Women always want respect from men. They can’t
tolerate, if they are treated as only arm candy. Some people think women are
only to fulfill their physical and mental demands. Their duty is to accompany
men whenever they need them. It is a common belief that is available in men that
respect is such a thing need to be achieved and women have no ability to achieve
that. If the same thinking is found in you, you can be categorized as one of them
who believes women as a need only for bed-life. Unless you get out of this kind
of thinking you can’t respect women. Then you have to pretend. It is almost
impossible to do that because without creating a real honor for them your
attitude will never show that you have got respect for them. Women can easily
understand who respect them in real and who do not. Just start to respect them
from the heart. Sooner you will find most of the women are neglecting your
other faults only for this quality. They will start showing interest in you. Even
they may want you for their whole life as a partner. So, courting them will be
more than easier for you.
They Want A True Lover: You try the heart and soul to prove yourself as a
true lover to the beautiful lady you want to flirt with. Only presenting expensive
gifts, having dinner in a grand hotel or taking her to a beautiful spot cannot and
will not prove you a true lover. Most of the cases, women do not agree to go for
a date unless they find their partners love them truly. If you fail to show her your
love for her, your hope of having a date with her will only remain a hope. You
will not be able to materialize it.
Make her believe that you can solve all her problems: In this modern world
women are no more a weaker sex. Still, they love to believe that their man is
capable of solving any problem they might face. This feeling of your desired girl
will help her to feel secured whenever she is with you. To make her feel that you
have to be focused at the time she talks about any of her problems. Tell her that
you are always with her and try to find a solution to her problems. The more you
can do it, the more you are getting closer to her. As a result, you can have some
more time and opportunities to flirt with her. Moreover, she will be more
impressed.
Women prefer serious and passionate men: Most of the women seek their
opportunities to have relationship with famous writers, singers, sportsmen and
actors. They like these famous men because they know these celebrities are
sincere and passionate. It means that they want their hero not only in bed but
also in professions and hobbies. So, to flirt with a girl you can’t but grow this
nature. I never say that you need to become a popular singer, sportsman or an
actor. Just try to get passionate about something pleasant to her. It can be
collecting antique, writing stories, painting or anything else. Let her know about
your passion. If you find her showing interested in it, you should continue it.
Sometimes you may need to change the subject according to her choice. It does
not matter what the subject is. Your aim is to present yourself as a sincere and
passionate person. Whenever you will be flirting with her, it benefits you a lot.
Even if you ask her for a date, she might not disappoint you. She has already
known that you have got lots of passion. She may think that it is time to check
out your passion in the real place, that very place where every woman wants
their man to be passionate most.
Woman want Mr. Dependable: Women are very much independent now-a-
days. They often forget it when it is time to choose a man. Every woman wants
to depend on her man and your desired lady so does it. So, you try to be a
dependable man for her. If you are dependable and trustworthy enough, it
becomes very easy to be positive at the time of making decision regarding a date
with you. As a result, you will be able to court her easily. At first you have to
send her the message that you are dependable through your activities. If your
desired lady asks you to do anything for her, it can be sending mails to someone,
buying a few books, opening a bank account-no matter how much they seem odd
to you, try to do the job with perfection. If you make a mess of it, she will
definitely lose her faith in you. She may think she shouldn’t have asked you as
you are not dependable. As a result, she might lose some of her likings she had
for you.
Women want a Man with an Aim: Women never prefer aimless person, as
every woman wants her man eligible to get introduced. They love gossiping.
They love to tell others about the job, position or standard of her boyfriend. For
this, they prefer a guy having a high ambition. So, to flirt with you can tell her
that you are quite ambitious. Do not think that she is going to believe your
statement unless she finds you working hard to materialize your aim. Do not
make late. Let her watch you pushing hard to attain a good job. Give more than
100 percent of you to build a standard career.
Woman wants a careful Guy: Women want to be taken care of. A lady wants
his man to be careful to her. She wants her man to be careful about her job,
study, need and health. If her man is careless about her, she might make a plan to
block the road of their relationship. She does not want to be a toy for her man
that is thrown away when the game is over. So you have to be very careful to the
lady you want to flirt with. If she informs you about her illness, you should go to
visit her without delay. You may stay a long way from her, but you need to keep
yourself in touch of her in that situation. Talk to her over phone. Tell that you
are very much worried about and you are going to meet her as soon as possible.
Let her feel that you are extremely worried and moved. Moreover, tell her that
you have gone mad to see her. It will create a belief in her that you really care
for her. It will make her feel happy and secured. She will want this type of love
and care for a long time.
Women Need and Desire
Women love to dream. They are optimistic in a dreamy way. They always hope
their desire regarding their life and they think their men will get it materialized.
It is time for you to learn about the desire of the woman you want to flirt with
her.
Woman loves Fairy Tales
We all know that women are fond of opera-soaps, T.V. shows, fairy tales and
romantic novels. They spend a lot of time on these things. They love to imagine.
They want their life to be compared to a fairy tale or a romantic novel. In a fairy
tale the princess waits and waits for her prince to come to fetch her. You need to
let your desired girl know that you have come to fetch her. That is why, you
need to be different from others, so that she can realize that she has been waiting
for you. Do not disappoint her. At your first meeting leave a great impression on
her.
Women Desire for a Hero
Women watch a lot of Tele Vision shows. Most of them are created based on the
love stories. The lady you want at any cost desires a hero like those shows in her
real life. So, you need to show some symptoms in you of those popular male
characters of shows. Your girl wants to be loved like a hero loves the heroine in
movies or in Tele Vision shows and she wants you to be with her in every
situation. So, you need to be with her and through your words you have to make
her understand that like the hero you can make the impossible possible for her.
