Erection on Demand: A personal account and guide to obliterating erectile dysfunction and moving from erection zero to erection superhero

31 Pages·2018·0.2 MB·English

by  Dewayne Steele

Erection on Demand
A personal account and guide to
obliterating erectile dysfunction and moving from erection zero to erection
superhero
Copyright © 2018 Dewayne Steele
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Contents
Chapter 1: Can’t Get No Satisfaction

Chapter 2: Why?

Chapter 3: Tools of the trade

Chapter 4: Jedi Mind Tricks

Chapter 5: Jedi Mind Tricks 2

Chapter 6: Let’s get physical

Chapter 7: Let’s get physical 2

Chapter 8: Practice make perfect

Chapter 9: Prime Timeline

Chapter 10: A Word on Porn and Masturbation

Chapter 11: One more thing

Chapter 1: Can’t Get No Satisfaction

I remember the first time I had an erectile issue. What had once worked
like clockwork was as predictable as the lottery. It had a huge effect on me. I
was less aware at the time. And too proud to get help. I was then as I am now,
the kind of person who would suffer in silence while seeking answers to my life
questions.
In my particular situation initially I would have difficulty getting and
erection. I worked until that graduated to difficulty maintaining an erection.
Finally, when I got to the point where I could maintain an erection for a decent
amount of time. But then I would have issues with premature ejaculation. My
most memorable days were when I was dating a beautiful girl and I hit the
trifecta all in one night. But I continued on, seeking information from books,
internet, and experimentation. Eventually, I got to the point where I was happy
with my erection and my sex life. It took me years to get there, but hey I got
there.
I decided to write this book, to help others. I don’t want anyone to have
to go through what I did. And I believe in love. I am a romantic. Not quite
hopeless. But I love to see happy couples. And the fact of the matter is that sex is
an important part of that happiness—provided you are in an intimate
relationship.
A little more back story—just to give you an idea about what you will
find in this book. I spent years trying to figure out what caused my issues. Once I
figured out the cause, I decided to figure out how to fix it. These problems
persisted well into my marriage, and I went to see a doctor about it. He of course
offered me the blue pill.
I considered it.
But I said no, I knew there had to be another way. And it is not that I am
opposed to taking medication when you need it. But the bigger question is do
you need it? It turns out that I was right. I didn’t need it. At this point, I have
near conscious control of my erections. I will even get (almost) unwelcomed
erections like I did as a teenager. You know the kind that occur when you are in
a public place, and an amazing girl comes by or a co-worker decides to wear
yoga pants to work. A sexy co-worker. Some people shouldn’t wear yoga pants.
Anyway, I get those unwelcomed erections from time to time. Now, I
have the maturity to send them away. Or I will make sure that it is hidden until
things return to normal.
I am complaining. But in reality, I thank God for it. That means
everything is working down there in my lower and upper head.
When I say control, I mean that I can get an erection and lose an
erection mentally. If I lose an erection during sex, it is a simple matter to
stimulate myself and maintain that erection as long as I am mentally and
physically engaged.
I am in my forties, so that is a factor.
When I was in my twenties, I got an erection and it stayed that way until
my girlfriend and I ran out of ammunition. In truth, it is not the same now, but in
many ways it is better. My point is that I have a solution to a problem that
plagues many and I want to share it with you. A solution that very well may
make you great, but it doesn’t reverse time. It is my hope to save you money,
time and a lot of heartache.
Now at this point, I know I should be trying to convince you that it will
work. That you will buy this book and I will guarantee that it will work for you
and you will have super sexual powers and we can share stories about how we
gained our super powers. You read a magical book and I was bitten by a
radioactive vagina.
No, I won’t lie to you. A lot depends on the reader. It is just like reading
a diet book. Of course it will work, if the reader can fully embrace the diet, it
will work. It is that whole embracing thing that is key. So being from another
planet won’t make you super, working hard and staying focused will.
I tried multiple things that either failed or gave me moderate results. I
hope that isn’t the case for you. But in the process of failing, I actually found
multiple solutions that worked. So chances are that one of them will help you.
But again, I won’t lie to you. Maybe this book is only a single battle in a war.
And that is the attitude that you must take, you may not win every battle but you
will definitely win the war.
Let me show you how I won my war.
Chapter 2: Why?

I asked why. Why the blank did I go from porn star status to periodically
neutered? I am ashamed to say that it took me years to figure it out. My self-
awareness is one of my highest intelligences and it still took me years to figure it
out. Why? Because it wasn’t just one thing. It was a multitude of things. It
started after I broke up with the mother of my first born. It broke my heart and
apparently my penis too.
No it wasn’t just that. And to be honest, losing her was for the best. I
had mental and physical issues as well. I was always anxious even as a young
man. Never occurred to me that anxiety could be so debilitating. And despite the
fact that I had severe sleep apnea, it was never enough to stop me before, but the
emotional turmoil of our relationship pushed me over the edge and I struggled.
It may be that in your situation, it is multiple things or it could be just
the one thing. Indeed. If you are not physically healthy. That alone could prevent
an erection. The penis is actually a good barometer of health. If there is
something wrong down there that means there is probably something wrong
elsewhere.
Not just physical health, but your Penis is a part of your body and
therefore directly connected to your subconscious. As I said before I continued
forward even though I was having problems. Because I knew that everything
was going to be all right. My first real solution was to simply change the
equation. Under certain conditions, I had difficulty having an erection. So I
simply changed the conditions. I noticed that I had less problems with sexually
aggressive women. So I dated and in many of those cases I didn’t have as many
problems. However, I am a romantic and these ladies were looking for anything
but romance.
But there was one such date, who no matter how I tried my antenna just
wouldn’t extend. The night ended with very little happening. I was disappointed,
but overjoyed later. I found out two things. She was pregnant with an STD. I
didn’t mind the baby, but I am really glad that I don’t have the STD. I believe
that my Penis understood before my mind understood that it wasn’t worth the
risk.
So far I have hinted that the person you are with, may be a factor in your
erectile dysfunction. I have blamed my wife many times for being the cause of
my premature ejaculation. I tell her playfully, that if she wasn’t so fine I could
last longer. But on a serious note, it is true that your partner may be an issue. But
your penis is your responsibility. Do not blame your problems on the woman
you love and have sworn to protect. Besides when you take responsibility it
gives you the power to do something about it. I will address that situation along
with others in later chapters. But the core reasons for problems with erectile
dysfunction is poor physical or mental health. As far as mental health goes, I
also include subconscious fear as well as possible guilt.
I want you to keep in mind that what I did was to improve myself
physically and mentally. This include mental and physical exercises. However,
there is no shame in going to a doctor. It may even be in your best interest to go
to the doctor to assess what is wrong and then determine if you want to go with
the doctor’s solution or the solutions as laid out in this book. I am assuming that
you are a reasonably healthy adult. If you are on medication or dealing with
health issues, you are further in the negative and it would be that much more
difficult to get your erection on the positive side of the line. It’s not impossible.
But part of my message is whatever you do, don’t dig a hole for yourself.
I have a PHD, but I am no medical doctor. But I am good at research. I
will tell you what I have learned as a method of self-diagnosis, but again feel
free to go see a doctor or a therapist.
If you are still getting nocturnal erections, then you can physically get an
erection when you are ready to have sex. That is the best case scenario. You are
still getting nocturnal erections and that says a lot. If you need manual
stimulation to get an erection, join the club. And that also means that you can
physically get an erection when you are ready to have sex. Chances are that if
you can get an erection via any typical means (manual, oral, etc.,) your erectile
issues are in your head. Even if you are having difficulty maintaining that
erection or you are ejaculating too fast, the issue is likely Performance Anxiety.
If you got nothing going on at all, well it is more likely than not that you
have Erectile Dysfunction for physical reason. If the problem is directly related
to neurological and nerve issues, beyond poor health it is better to see a