Table Of ContentTheTechnologies of
Dating to Relating
-FromA toZ
(Aman's guidetounderstandingwomen)
Or
"How Iwent from stupidtosmart injust 50 years."
Or
"How Iget moredates with,relationships withandproposals from Hot YoungWomen
at age50 than Idid at age25."
By Mr. L. Rx
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INDEX
Introduction-5
Foreword-8
1)DATING-HowdatingGuru's strategies gowrong. –9
2)Different menlikedifferent women. Different womenrequiredifferent strategies. –10
a)MyCredentials -12
b)Relationships –Theproblem withDatingGurus -16
c)Examples ofstrategies andhowdifferent personalities canrequirecompletely
oppositestrategies -20
3)Twobasicproblems –25
a)What guys dowrong- 25
b)What peopledowrong-31
c)Shortcut PersonalityTheory– “Feet Angles” and PersonalityTypes -32
4)TheBasicSolution –OBSERVATION–How toDevelopstrategies -41
a)Perceptionchannels –41
b)MotionToward–Motionaway-46
i)Purposes inobservingMotion–48
ii)ScaleofSexual Motion–51
iii)Adjustingas youinteract –51
EXAMPLE1-52
iv)Set Patterns ofMotion-54
EXAMPLE2 -57
c)Gradients –62
5)Objectives -65
a)Get Experience– Multiple or “Serial” dating -65
b)SaneDatingprinciples buildsaneRelationships –67
c)SaneDatingprinciples can be appliedtoexistingRelationships -73
d)ProspectingandQualifying-is shethe girl you arelookingfor -78
6) Turning “meeting” into dating relationships. -82
a) Creating “Future” –82
b) Meetingwomenwalkingdownthestreet. -87
c) MeetingWomen InStores, Restaurants, Malls, etc.-92
d) MeetingWomenWhoWork InMalls, Restaurants, Stores, etc. -97
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e) HowandWheretomeet women.-100
7)TurningDatingintoRelationships -103
a)Howto get aseconddate.-103
b)HowtoTurntheSecond,ThirdandFourthDates intoaGirlfriend -107
8)Relationships -TheDifferent Types ofSexual Relationships 112
9)HowtoCreatea BetterRelationship –118
a)HowtoManage "CreatingA BetterRelationship"-123
b)CreatingARelationship -Thedifferent Types ofCreate andGradients -128
c)Your Love Interest as YourTeammate–137
10)Seduction-142
a)TheArt ofSeduction –AClassicExample–142
b)Seduction -Short and LongTerm Techniques - 145
c)SeductionQualities OnAFirst MeetingorDate-151
11)AlternativeRelationships -- Lovers, MultipleLovers andArrangements -154
12)HowToMake Love ToAWoman-163
a)Foreplay- 163
b)HowToGet YourWifeorGirlfriendToWant MoreSex -166
c)MaleDysfunctionand Relationships -172
d)Sexual Technique-Howtomakelovetoawoman –175
SUMMARY-178
APPENDIX-179
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INTRODUCTION
I’ve often been asked, “what is the purpose of writing another book on dating.”
Well mypurposeinwritingthis bookis two-fold.
First, there is no accurate technology on “how to meet,” “how to pick up” women etc.,
that I am aware of. Now that doesn’t mean that there are no books out there that can help
guys and girls withtheir relationships. There are a numberofbooks out therethat contain
strategies that work,but thereareNObooks out therethat containtechnologies that
work- in fact, I haven’t even seen a book, which addresses the technologies of dating and
relating.
What is thedifferencebetweenastrategyandtechnology? Well forthepurposes ofour
book, let’s define it as follows.
Astrategyis detailedinstructions onhowtodosomethingorhowtoapproachsomething
that if youemploy(even without fullyunderstandingit)will worka certainpercentageof
times.
Atechnologyis afull understandingonall theprinciples ofanareaso that onecan
masterthearea.Atechnologywill generatedozens ofstrategies eachof whichworks
undercertaincircumstances.
Whydoes anyoneneed a technologyinsteadofastrategyandwho wouldbethekindof
person that wouldwant a technologyratherthana strategy?
Well thereareseveral reasons whyaperson might preferatechnologyto astrategy.
1) If youarejust thekindofperson whowants tomasteranarea, you wouldprefera
technologyto astrategy.
2) If youaretiredofthelow yieldthat datingstrategies produceandwould preferto
close80-90%of ANYof thewomen youmeet in ANYsituationratherthan10%ofthe
womenthat youmeet in general circumstances youwouldpreferatechnologytoa
strategy.(Actually,some strategies –somethat Igive youinthis book –can yieldas
muchas 80-100%results –if you applythem undercertainspecificconditions andwith
certainspecificpersonalitytypes. Theproblem is thesesamestrategies will not workat
all –0%results –underotherconditions andwithotherpersonalitytypes.)
3) Ifthestrategies that youhavebeenexposedtorequire youtodoandsaythings that
just don’t feel right, that just aren’t you, then you wouldpreferatechnologytoastrategy.
Atechnologywill allowyouto generate yourown strategythat works for youandthat
youarecompletelycomfortablewithdoing.
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After observing the “Dating Guru” scene for many years and buying many of these
products myselftosharpenmyown game, Irealizedthat noneofthese guys hadany
technology,onlystrategy.Moreover, when Ilookedat theirresults, theirstatistics were
worsethanmine.
I learned a lot from these typical “dating gurus.” After all, anythinganyonehas tosayon
thesubject is applicabletocertainsituations and Ifindthat valuable. Icertainlyhavenot
doneeverythingandthereare certainlymanyclever guys otherthanme whohavecome
upwithcleverstrategies formeetinganddatingwomen.
Soall oftheseguys are goodguys inmyopinion.TheyareALLtryingtohelptheir
fellowman.But thereis aproblem out there.Therearenot TECHNOLOGIES only
strategies, andthat is whyIwrotethis book.
Gurus can comeupwith astrategythat works from trial anderror,wordof mouth,
watchingother guys, etc. But atechnologyofdatingand relatingis awaytodevelop
manystrategies from theoryandobservationthat areapplicableacross a widevarietyof
situations andpersonalitytypes –anysituationanypersonalitytypethat you choose. It is
awaytoadjust andcorrect withchangingtimes, situations, needs, etc.
Most importantly, atechnologyis awaytoget what youwant.Astrategysometimes will
leave youhighanddryin that department.(Ilearnedthat when Iwas 25 years oldwhen I
developed a strategy that worked 100% of the time on the barroom and club “beautiful
tease” girls who had been my elusive fantasy challenge for years. However, after winning
anumberofthese girls inarow, Isoon learnedthat theywerenot worththe effort.Their
personalities andeventheirphysical beautycould not satisfyme.)
Thesecondreason that Iwrotethis bookis that IobservedanotherbigHOLEout therein
thedatingGURUinformationscene.
TheseDATINGGURUS onlytalkabout meetingwomen,pickingup women,attracting
women.Noneofthese guys seem to(admittedly) knowathingabout KEEPING a
womanafter youattract them,developingarelationshipwithawoman,findinga
marriagepartnerandcreatingasuccessful marriage.
There are other guys (and girls) who write about relationships, but they don’t seem to
knowmuchabout datingandattractingandmeetingwomen.
BUTTHE TRUTH IS a successful relationshipdepends onhow you goabout meeting
women,attractingwomen,qualifyingwomen, gettingtoknowwomeninthefirst place.
TheyARENOTtwodifferent topics, as most gurus seem tomakethem out tobe.
If youwant asuccessful marriageorotherlong-term-relationship,then you hadbetter
learn first howtomeet andattract womenwho arecompatiblewith yourownpersonality
and needs and desires. If you do not, you won’t make it a lifetime (at least not happily)
withoneperson, nomatterhow good youarewiththetenets ofrelationshiptechnology.
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Sointhis book,Igive youtheopeninggame,the middlegame andthefollowthrough.
Thereis noend game,becauseas longas youareinarelationshipthereis noend –only
future.
This is whyIwrotethis book-tofill thesegaps intheinformational forest ofDATING
andRELATING.
12/15/07
Mr. L.Rx.
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Foreword - How to use this book
This bookcontains alot ofdata.Perhaps morethan youwill everneedorwant toknow.
As I’ve explained in the introduction,thefields or datingand relatingareintertwinedand
related, I’ve tried to write this book so that the Chapters are autonomous. Occasionally
theymayrefertoanother Chapter,whichifit does, youshouldprobablylookupand
read.
Therefore,thereareseveral ways youcanusethis book
1) Youcanreadit from covertocover.(Highlyrecommended)
2) Youcanuseit as areferencelookupatopicof yourchoice andreadtheChapter
orChapters that coverthat.
3) If you want the “meat” of my technology of meetingandpickingup womenthen
youshouldreadChapters 3and4.(Quickstart)
4) If you want the “meat” of my relationship technology then you should read
Chapters 8and9(Quick start)
5) If youwant strategies for meetingandpickingup women youshouldread
Chapters 2(c) and6.
6) If youwant strategies for relatingtowomenthen youshouldreadChapters 11and
12.
Nowas youreadthis book,if youfindsomethingthat youfeel youcould applyto your
situation, Isuggest youstopright thereandtryit. Then comebackand readalittlemore.
Whenever youfindsomething youcan apply,stopagainandapplyit.Then returntoread
somemore.
Thepoint is toget youto applythis stuffforthebetterment of yourlifeand relationships.
Soif youfindsomethingthat will help,put thebookdownand goout and doit (unless it
is threeinthemorningandthat is impractical.)Thebookwill always betherewhen you
return.
Mr. L.Rx
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1) DATING - How dating Guru's strategies go wrong.
THEPROBLEM WITH DATING "GURUS."Theproblem is simple.Theyonlytell you
howtomeet andattract women.Theydon't tell youhowto RELATE and KEEP them.
WORSE yet,theydon't eventell youthe correct principles ofMEETING women.....they
tell youwhat workedfor them.....andtheytell you todothings that don't quitefeel right
for you......
WHY?
BECAUSEMOSTGURUS HAVENOREALEXPERIENCEWITHMEETINGA
BROADRANGEOFWOMENANDSECURINGARELATIONSHIP WITHTHEM.
MOSTGURUS HAVE SIMPLYDISCOVEREDONETECHNIQUETHATWORKS
(ONONETYPEOFWOMEN),THEN DO IT ALLTHETIMEONEVERYONE,AND
TELLYOU-- IT IS ANUMBERS GAME -
NO--IT IS NOT ANUMBERS GAME -IF YOUKNOW WHATYOU AREDOING
SITUATIONALLY,YOUCANCLOSE80-90% OFTHEWOMENTHATYOUARE
INTERESTED IN.
WHEN IREVIEWEDWEBSITES BEFOREPREPARINGTHIS BOOK, ICOULDN'T
BELIEVETHAT IACTUALLYSAW GURUS WRITINGADVICE:
--GURUS WHOHADNOACTUALEXPERIENCE.THEIR ADVICEWAS BASED
ON INTERVIEWS!
--GURUS WHOWEREWOMEN(WHODON'T EVENUNDERSTAND
THEMSELVES) GIVINGADVICETOMEN.
--ANDDOZENS OFGURUS WHOHAVETECHNIQUES THATCAN CLOSE
WOMEN(BUTWOMENTHAT IWOULDN'T TOUCHWITH A10FOOTPOLE. --
DOYOUWANTTHECREAMOFTHECROP LIKEME.OR WHATEVER YOU
CANGETBYCLOSING10-20%OFWHATEVER USINGANUMBERS GAME.)
NUMBERS GAMES AREN'T "TECHNOLOGIES"THEYARECRUDE
STRATEGIES.
IKNOW GUYS WHOCANGO INTOA BAR ANDASKEVERYWOMENTHEY
MEETVERYCRUDELY"DO YOUWANTTO ####"ANDGUESS WHAT,
DEPENDINGONTHE GUY IF THEYASK100 WOMENOR SOTHEY'LLGET
ONETORESPOND.
THEPROBLEM WITH NUMBERS GAMES IS THATTHEYMAKEYOUDO
THINGS THAT FEELUNCOMFORTABLE,THAT AREN'T QUITEYOU...AND
THEYDON'TWORKONTHEWOMENYOU REALLYWANT!!!!
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2) Different Men like Different Women –Different Women Require
different strategies.
Theproblem is, there are different TYPES ofmen.Anddifferent types of menlike
different types ofwomen.Different types ofwomenrequiredifferent strategies foreach
type.And I'm heretotell youall ofthem.
IF YOUWANTGOOD ADVICE,YOUSHOULDSEEKOUTSOMEONEWHOHAS
ACTUALLYDONE IT AND LEARN FROM THEM.
IHAVEDONE ITALL!
--IHAVEMETANDMAINTAINEDRELATIONSHIPS WITHA BROADVARIETY
OFDIFFERENTWOMEN.
--IHAVESUCCESSFULLYMETWOMEN(ANDDEVELOPEDRELATIONSHIPS
WITHTHEM)
IN BARS
IN CLUBS
NATURALLY--ONTHESTREET, INTHESTORE,ETC.
ON LINE
THROUGHNEWSPAPER andVOICEMAILADVERTISING
THROUGH FRIENDS
-- IHAVEGONE ONOVER 700DATES WITH DIFFERENTWOMEN IN ONE
YEAR.
--IHAVEHAD AMARRIAGE LAST12YEARS WITHOUTEVER CHEATINGON
MYWIFE
--IHAVEHAD AMONOGAMOUS RELATIONSHIP WITHAGIRLFRIENDFOR 7
YEARS WITHOUTEVER CHEATINGON HER.
--IHAVEHADMULTIPLE LONGTERM SEXUALRELATIONSHIPS WITHAS
MANYAS 10WOMENATONCEWITHOUTHIDINGMY INTENTIONS OR
LYINGTO ANYONE OFTHEM.
--IHAVEGONE TOBARS ANDCLUBS ANDGOTTEN LAID BYONE-NIGHTERS
EVERYNIGHT FOR MONTHS ONEND.
--IHAVEGOTTEN LAIDBYA DIFFERENTWOMANEVERYNIGHT OFTHE
WEEKFOR MONTHS ONEND.
--IHAVEMANIPULATEDTHEMANIPULATORS (YOUKNOW,P****TEASERS)
WHOWEREOUTTOUSEME.(YES,OFCOURSE, IGOTSEX, BUT ITWASN'T
VERYGOOD)
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