Table Of ContentBEYOND THE VEIL OF DELUSIONS
Understanding Relationships Through Homeopathy
SECOND REVISED EDITION
Mati H Fuller, DI Hom (pract)
Bigger Vision Books
BEYOND THE VEIL OF DELUSIONS
Understanding Relationships Through Homeopathy
SECOND REVISED EDITION
Copyright © Mati H Fuller, 2007
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New Comprehensive Homeopathic Materia Medica of Mind,
by Dr. H.L. Chitkara
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There are Two Types of Relationships:
One is of Fight, Fear, Hatred –
This Creates Ego –
The other is of Love, Compassion, Sympathy.
These are the Two Types of Relationships.
Wherever Love is, Fight Ceases, Ego Drops.
This is Why You Cannot Love.
It is Difficult,
Because to Love Means to Drop the Ego,
To Drop Yourself.
Love Means Not to Be.
A Bird on the Wings
Bhagwan Shree Rajneesh
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
First I would like to thank my friend and editor Dianne Bairstow for
patiently reading and editing this book. Her efforts to make the book easy to
read and understand is much appreciated. I would also like to thank all the
couples who volunteered their stories for the book so that we can all learn more
about relationship dynamics. A big thanks to Maria T Bohle for writing the
forword, and last, but not least, to Nigell, Holly and Taru for putting up with me
while I was working on this project. Thanks to all of you who made it possible
for me to write this book, I couldn’t have done it without your help!
FOREWORD
“Beyond the Veil of Delusions - Understanding Relationships Through
Homeopathy” by Mati H Fuller is a fascinating psychological and homeopathic
study of human nature and its inner relationships.
Mati’s understanding of psychology and her proficiency in homeopathic
medicine merge together in this delightful, easy to read and easy to understand
book.
We all have a need for water, food, and a hospitable climate where we can
live and thrive comfortably. We all have a need for love, attention and affection,
but our love relationships and interactions have always been a source of
mystery to many of us. How often have we heard, “What does he see in her?” or
“They seemed like such a nice couple, why did they split up?” Or, even, “Why do
they stay together?” These questions have never been adequately explained, but
Mati’s insights remove the mystery. This book sheds light upon the motivations
of many constitutional remedies and it enlightens the reader to the needs,
desires and fears each remedy exhibits. Now we can understand the glue that
holds relationships together or the repelling forces that might precipitate a
separation.
Beyond the Veil of Delusions is fascinating reading, not just for the
homeopath, but for anyone who is a student of human behavior, or for anyone
who wants to achieve a better understanding of what makes relationships work
or not work. Through Mati’s understanding of human needs at the more
elemental levels of security, image and delusions these remedy pictures come
alive.
Mati Fuller brings a rich background to the homeopathic table. Her study
of homeopathy and her clearness of vision and understanding of human
behavior make this a unique but solid compilation of her knowledge. Although
her book is more than 300 pages long, I do have one complaint: it was so good
that Mati left me wanting more. I scoured the index hoping for just one more
remedy, well maybe two more, or even three more would be nice…
Mati has opened a door for us, a door that many homeopaths can now
pass through, she has brought our literature and understanding to a new,
exciting dimension, and I look forward to her next book as time allows her to
continue her project into the future.
This book is a classical piece of literature; it will take its place
prominently on my book shelf right next to Catherine Coulter, Robin Murphy’s
Workbook, Gibbson and Bailey’s Psychology. I am always delighted to have
another reference book that I can use to refresh my knowledge in a particular
area and Mati’s book has done that – taught me more in an exciting, refreshing
way.
Maria T. Bohle, CCH, RS Hom (NA), DHM, DCN, FBIH, Director, The
British Institute of Homeopathy, USA
Table of Contents
INTRODUCTION What Inspired Me to Write This Book..................................................1
PART ONE
Perceptions of Reality
THE MENTAL STATE What is Real?.................................................................................9
WHAT IS HEALTH?..............................................................................................................17
PART TWO
THE REMEDY PROFILES
The Deeper Levels of the Psyche
DO I EXIST? Alumina...........................................................................................................25
I'M RIGHT AND YOU'RE NOT! Arsenicum Album............................................................31
I JUST WANT TO FEEL SAFE Calcarea Carbonica...........................................................47
ALWAYS FIGHTING FOR A CAUSE Causticum Hahnemanni.........................................53
FAMILY AND FRIENDS ARE IMPORTANT Kali Carbonicum.......................................63
I NEED TO ACHIEVE MY GOALS Lycopodium Clavatum................................................73
EXPLORING EVERYTHING TO THE MAX Medorrhinum.............................................85
A NEW PERSPECTIVE ON ADD Medorrhinum.................................................................95
IF I'M PERFECT, I'LL BE LOVED Natrum Muriaticum...................................................101
WHICH SIDE ARE YOU ON? Nitric Acidum.....................................................................113
THE GREAT CONQUEROR Nux Vomica...........................................................................121
WANTING FAME AND FORTUNE Phosphorus.................................................................129
IF I'M GENTLE AND SOFT, I'LL SURVIVE Pulsatilla Pratensis...................................137
ALWAYS COMPROMISING Sepia Succus.........................................................................149
STUBBORN AND INDECISIVE Silicea Terra....................................................................157
HUMILIATION AND LACK OF RESPECT Staphysagria................................................167
WHY AM I HERE? Thuja Occidentalis................................................................................177
PART THREE
RELATIONSHIPS
Predictable Patterns
WHAT IS LOVE? Arsenicum Album and Staphysagria......................................................185
INDEPENDENTLY TOGETHER Kali Carbonicum and Nux Vomica ...............................193
INTIMACY VERSUS CONFLICT Medorrhinum and Natrum Muriaticum.......................199
WHO'S IN CHARGE? Medorrhinum and Silicea Terra.......................................................209
THE ALMOST PERFECT RELATIONSHIP Natrum Muriaticum and Arsenicum
Album.......................................................................................................................................215
DISAPPOINTED EXPECTATIONS Natrum Muriaticum and Lycopodium Clavatum.....221
HOW CAN I TRUST YOU? Natrum Muriaticum and Staphysagria..................................229
CONTROL ISSUES AND CONFLICT Nitric Acidum and Lycopodium Clavatum............237
FUN VERSUS ONGOING CRISIS Phosphorus and Medorrhinum....................................245
DESIRE FOR PEACE, LOVE AND HARMONY Pulsatilla Pratensis and Staphysagria 253
PRACTICALITY VERSUS IDEALISM Sepia Succus and Causticum Hahnemanni..........261
STUBBORNESS VERSUS SPONTANEITY Silicea Terra and Nux Vomica.....................271
PART FOUR
THE BIGGER PICTURE
Conclusions and Reflections
CHANGING CONSTITUTIONS A Controversial Subject...................................................279
THE MYSTERY OF ATTRACTION Personal Reflection......................................................283
MEDITATION AND RELATIONSHIPS................................................................................287
GIVE AND TAKE IN RELATIONSHIPS..............................................................................291
ADAM AND EVE A True Story.............................................................................................297
INDEX......................................................................................................................................305
