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Table of Contents
Foreword
Keys To A Successful Approach
Evolutionary Theory
Key Concepts
Self Amusement:
Leading:
Dominance:
Investment:
Takeaway
Social Violation Theory
Reactivity
Social Freedom
Framing
Interest / Disinterest
Calibration
Signs She’s Interested
Compliance
Value
Attraction Through Emotion
Attraction Through Demonstration
Survival of the Fittest vs Sexual Selection
Disqualifed Help
Types of Openers
1) Opinion Openers
2) Social Openers
3) Projection Openers
4) Direct Openers
5) Approach Invitation Openers
6) Lone Wolf Opener
Pre-Fabricated Stacks
Stack One
Stack Two
Group Theory
Contingencies
Social Violation Theory
Being Interactive
Grounding Routines
Lost Friends
Weird look on open
Lost Attention
Ignored Opener
Interest in Attraction
Female Interrupt
Male Interrupt
Obstacle attempts pull away
“I want to Dance” Pull Away :
Guy attempts to AMOG: I Have a Boyfriend
All Disinterest Points
Shit Test Cheat Sheet
Qualification
Testing
Screening
Rewarding
Releasing
Group Vs Target Qualification
Example Qualifiers
Body Language 101
Walk Up
Direct Walk Up
Indirect Walk Up
In Set Body Language
Locking In
The Body Rock
Dominant Walk
Social Value
Avoiding Big Mistakes
Leaning In
Head Tilt
Not Locking In
Apologetic or Nervous Body Language
Pain Walk Up
Premature Eject-ulation
Stalling
Bad Delivery
Appendix A: Venue Selection
Day Venues
Night Venues
Social Gatherings
Appendix B: Peacocking
Terms & Conditions
Foreword
Everyone knows the game is played in comfort, another way of saying
mid-game, or anything that happens after the initial walk up to get her attracted.
I wholeheartedly agree with that assessment, with one caveat: the greatest mid-
game in the world will not help you if she never gives you the time of day.
Approaching and Attracting women lets you pick who you want to meet.
It allows you to be free when it comes to your dating life. No more will you be
consigned to meeting women through friends, at work or, god forbid, dating a
distant relative.
No, you see her in the day at a park, or at a bar at night and you can go
talk to her, if you know how.
Approaching women is one of the most difficult skills for men to
cultivate. We have many fears about something as seemingly simple as striking
up a conversation with a beautiful woman. The very suggestion of which can
bring all our insecurities to the surface.
What men have needed for a while now is a complete guide to the
various methods that allow you to talk to women. Many differing styles are
available in order to break the ice and different schools of thought on what you
should be looking to accomplish in the first three minutes.
Rather than try to sell you on any one school of thought, my goal is to
lead you by the hand and show you a few of the different approaches that are
employed by various pickup schools. Obviously, while I cannot share any of
their proprietary property, I can give you the stuff that they openly teach, to
begin an interaction in a format that can maximise your success and allow you to
then follow your instincts as to what you want to learn from whom.
The biggest benefit of learning some ideas behind approaching is that
you avoid the mental trap of ‘I don't know what to say'. For many men, a lack of
real understanding and knowledge of basic approaches causes missed
opportunities with women that could completely change their life for the better.
Of course, as anyone who approaches will know, social interactions are
not a one-way street. As you walk up and break the ice, women can throw any
number of different challenges at you, from shit tests to Disinterest and that is
before you get to her friends causing problems. I understand that just the
approach and knowing what to say (if indeed you opt for a structured approach)
is only half the battle. For this reason, I have added how to handle the various
contingencies that come up in the optimum way.
Throughout this book remember one thing: Attraction Isn’t A Choice.
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For me, when I started out, just knowing that I had ways to strike up a
conversation with women, something that allowed me to test and improve
myself when it came to the opposite sex, excited me. How could you not want to
go ahead and learn these skills? Once you realise that you are are not limited by
your current skill level, but instead able to improve the quality of your sexual
partner through improving your own social skills Of course, what quickly
follows is the addiction because once you know what you are doing; walking up
to women becomes fun. The best analogy I would give you is that it's a roller
coaster, you know logically that nothing bad could happen and you enjoy it, but
at the same time you get that nervous rumbling from deep in your gut when you
see that big vertical drop approaching.
Then it happens, in this case 'it' means women playing with their hair,
touching you and wanting you to keep talking to them to see where it goes.
When you see that, everything goes bright and you play the Game to win.
Note: The benefit to having this book as a digital release is that it affords
me a great deal of flexibility when it comes to being able to update it. If you feel
something is missing or you would like further clarification, then e-mail me:
Keys To A Successful Approach
In order to successfully approach women, there are several key
components that need to be covered:
I) Psychology - We need to understand why women respond to certain
approaches and reject others. We also need to have a basic grasp of some key
techniques that are in play when we approach. In this case, that means knowing
the different types of value and how to increase ours, the qualities she is looking
for, and how to avoid pit falls.
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II) Body Language - As we have all heard, 75% of our communication
is given via body language. It is hugely important that body language be
understood before we even walk up to a group of women. In this section, we'll
look at body language for the walk up, when in set, and even how to move
around the venue.
III) Openers - There are many ways to open a set, no style is the one
true way, but you will find one way will be more consistent for you. I cover
everything from direct to indirect and there are quite a few shades in-between
those. I also explain how lone wolf sets differ and the non-approaching opener
for those that want to skip the walk up.
III) Contingencies - What roadblocks are thrown up? Why do women
do these to you? How can you overcome the objections? Are you creating the
objections through improper body language or not winning over the group? If it
has happened to you, it is in this section.
IV) Transitioning to Qualification - Attracting a woman, the way we
look at it should only take three to five minutes, never more. Does that mean you
never need to get her attracted again? No! What it means is that if you spend too
long trying to attract her it sends the wrong message and she will rebuff your
advances. You have to know how to move the interaction forward, so that you
can get to mid-game.
