Ultimate Guide to Cunnilingus : How to Go Down on a Women and Give Her Exquisite Pleasure

278 Pages·2010·2.52 MB·English

by  Violet Blue

Table of Contents

Ultimate Guides from Cleis Press
Title Page
Dedication
Foreword
Introduction
CHAPTER 1 - One Act, Many Pleasures
Receiving
Giving
Increasing Intimacy
Enhancing Lovemaking
CHAPTER 2 - How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love Getting Head
The Four Fears
Building Blocks for Great Sex: Masturbation and Fantasy
Fantasy
Getting Connected
Being a Great Lick-ee
The Oral Sex Double Standard
CHAPTER 3 - Anatomy for Pleasure
Female Anatomy 101
The Clitoris
Beneath the Surface
The Sexual Response Cycle
The G-spot and Ejaculation
CHAPTER 4 - Health Considerations
Is Cunnilingus a Risky Behavior?
Is Rimming Risky?
Safer Sex
Safer-Sex Gear
Flavored Vulvas
Air Embolism
Episiotomy
The Eroticism of Safer Sex
CHAPTER 5 - Tastes and Textures
Hair: Velvet or Velcro?
Shaving
What About Waxing?
Razor Burn
Smell and Taste
Beard Burn
Menstruation
CHAPTER 6 - Cunning Linguistics: Getting Started
Cunning Strategies and Suggestions
Talking with a Reluctant Would-be Lick-ee
Finding out What She Likes
Foreplay Games for Lovers
CHAPTER 7 - Oral Seduction
First Taste
Helping Hands
Female Genital Massage
Starting Licks
Tongue Techniques
What Your Mouth Can Do
Strokes and Combinations
Rhythm
How to Be a Mind Reader (Well, Almost)
Bump and Grind: Orgasmic Body Language
Orgasm
CHAPTER 8 - As You Like It
Positions
Cunnilingus Positions for Injured or Disabled People
Tongue and Jaw Cramp
Penetration and Sex Toys
G-spot Stimulation
CHAPTER 9 - Tricks or Treats: Advanced Techniques
Erotic Pressure Points
Fire and Ice
Cool and Tingling Sensations
A Little Pain
A Lot of Pain
Exercising Restraint
Rimming
Anal Penetration
Extreme Sports
CHAPTER 10 - Independent Study: Erotic Books and Videos
Recommended Reading
Erotic Videos
How-To Videos
CHAPTER 11
CHAPTER 12
About the Author
Copyright Page
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For B.L.M.
Foreword

Pussy is a wondrous mystery. Every time I am honored by the company of one,
immediately I doubt myself. Even though I have one (a very nice one at that!)
and have been lucky enough to have had many, many, many pussies presented to
me, in one way or another throughout my adult life, it’s still daunting. It’s still
intimidating; it never ceases to be a challenge. It never ceases to be an
unanswerable question and the answer to all questions combined. When I sit
down at the sacred table, to devour the sumptuous feast laid out lovingly before
me, I am in awe.

When it comes to cunt, there are a few very important truths. Every one is
different. Every one has its own unique architecture, its own set of rules and
regulations, its likes and dislikes. Nature has made it so that its true desire is
hidden always, and for those who can unearth its secrets, the rewards are greater
than can be imagined. Making a woman come, using your mouth and hands and,
well frankly, everything you have in you, is truly an art form. I can’t say I am a
great artist, but I try. I fail. I succeed at times, and those times keep me going
through all the mistakes and minor setbacks and getting-to-know-you
embarrassments. It’s a fantastic journey and sometimes, it’s a journey that leads
to TMJ. Ow, my jaw.

My advice is simple. Pussy requires patience, persistence, passion. You can’t
assume what will work on one will work on another. Eating pussy is just a
metaphor. It’s a process that requires far more than just the act of consuming
something. It’s more like communion. It is communication with the divine, like
prayer. You are giving back to the place where we all come from, the door to all
life. So pay it forward.

I can’t think of a better guide for your journey, a consummate expert, a gentle
guide, the perfect maître d’, the sumptuous sommelier, and the most gorgeous
dining companion, Violet Blue. Bon appétit!

Margaret Cho