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Utah Campus of the University of Phoenix
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LAY TO OUR
S
TRENGTHS
Stacking the Deck
to Achieve
Spectacular Results
for Yourself and Others
Andrea sigetich
AND
Carol Leavitt,
MBA
Career Press, Inc.
Franklin Lakes, N.J.
Copyright© 2008 by Andrea Sigetich and Carol Leavitt
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Sigetich, Andrea.
Play to your strengths : stacking the deck to achieve spectacular
results for yourself and others / by Andrea Sigetich and Carol Leavitt.
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Includes bibliographical references and index.
ISBN-13: 978-1-56414-980-0
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1. Leadership. 2. Management. 3. Success in business. I. Leavitt,
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edication
To Beryl, my hero and guide. You play to your strengths with
such heart, panache, and attitude! The strength of “us” far surpasses
the mere sum of us. And, fast gratitude to Carol Leavitt for her
strengths of insight, perspective, and above all, perpetual energy!
—Andrea
To my magnificent parents, Joan and Blaine, whose uncondi-
tional love and whole-hearted encouragement have been—and
continue to be—instrumental in my discovery of personal
strengths. To Mae Taylor, Dorothy Dart, and Andrea Sigetich—my
compassionate mentors—and to countless colleagues who have
supported me in growing and capitalizing on my strengths
throughout a thrilling career. And to Coby Sr., Coby Jr., Ian, and
Dave, whose unique and splendid strengths inspire me to amplify
my own in this glorious life.
—Carol
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CKNOWLEDGMENTS
We are deeply grateful to our clients who, by seeking their own
strengths, contributed to this work more than they know.
We appreciate the seminal work of the Gallup organization, which
has been highly instrumental in bringing strengths to the forefront.
You have been spared from our incomplete explanations and
blunders due to the brilliance of our amazing guest readers! They
provided us with insights and perspectives that significantly im-
proved the book. For your time and wisdom, we thank Jamie Bails,
LaNae Barber, Donna Billings, Joan Cameron, Steve Camkin,
Mary Cary Crawford, Carolyn Esky, Janet Janke, Kathy Kram,
Gretchen Rawdon, Teresa Rozic, David Sigetich, and Lois Vallerga.
In addition to our readers, we had others on our support team
who bolstered and encouraged us, and also made us get out and play
every once in a while! We very much appreciate Jan Baker, Cindy
Clemens, Martha Ham, Darci Hansen, Kayla Koeber, Stephanie Martini,
Nancy Obymako, Jane Oliver, Mary Ronnow, Charlene Rynders,
The Juice Group, and the Wild Women.
Finally, we wish to acknowledge our “silent partner” Beryl
Rullman, who read—red pen in hand—every single page of this
book in nearly every iteration along the way. We owe you a huge debt
of gratitude, and a box of red pens!
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Chapter One
Pat Hand: Playing the Cards You’re Dealt 19
Chapter Two
Dealer’s Choice: Naming the Game You’ll Play 41
Chapter Three
Discards: Knowing When to Hold ’em or Fold ’em 67
Chapter Four
Showdown: Playing for High Stakes 95
Chapter Five
Ante Up: Building the Kitty 119
Chapter Six
Ace in the Hole: Uncovering Hidden Strengths 149
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