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On the cover
6 Slashed with a knife on
MMIILLLLIIOONN!! girls night out
10 I should be dead…my
parachute didn’t open
22 Win a holiday to
Portugal
24 How little Albie’s sore
arm saved his life
28 Nits set my head on fire
This week we’re but I still feel beautiful
We just want to help
32 We had a Peperami
admiring Harp
wedding!
Edwards, 37, from
42 Devil dad killed his
the West Midlands.
teen girls to stop them
She said...
dating
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itting across from
More real life
a client in a one-to-
one therapy that we can see how best to
17 Lighter side of life
session, it was support them.
20 Adventure is out there
amazing to witness the At the heart of my mission, I
personal revelations she want to teach my clients 50 Sweet melody
was making. positive daily routines and
She had already habits that will help them From you
experienced so many I was inspired to do more break out of the gambling cycle.
breakthroughs in her Through mindfulness 3 One in a million
short time at the retreat. sessions and one-to-one
12 Your brainwaves
Throughout my career, to myself. therapy, the aim is to help them
S I have always been passionate Hearing second-hand about unpack some of their negative 15 Your dilemmas
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W about helping the lives of what these women had gone core beliefs.
S Feelgood
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A 4 Your pick me ups
M ways to tackle addiction. directly help them as up on them after they
N. I Although, after learning much as I could. We tackle have left the retreat. 9 Your home
WI more about human trafficking That’s when I got It’s an intense job but
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O than just
G years in psychotherapy Moody – the UK’s any way that I can. 23 Animal magic
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BY What can I do to help these Working in Wolverhampton, but I 34 You are enough
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temptation they might face in multiple locations, and I am 38 Genius or bonkers
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limited to targeting addiction. I just want to help others. 40 Easy eats
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issing my baby boy confusion – that SSTTAABBBBED IN
goodbye, I felt a wasn’t our scene.
sudden pang. ‘No we don’t,
‘I’ll see you in the sorry,’ Kate said.
morning,’ I told But he just
Jaxson, stroking his soft, wouldn’t take no for
chubby cheeks. an answer.
He was only seven months He started getting
old, and it was my first night aggressive, yelling
out without him. and swearing at us.
‘He’ll be fine,’ my mum Then he suddenly TTHHEE BBACK
Amanda reassured me. ‘Go went to grab Kate by
and have fun!’ the throat.
He was staying at Mum’s ‘What are you
round the corner, and I knew doing?’ I shouted.
he was in good hands. Sarah and I tried
Waving them off, I went to to calm the situation.
the kitchen and poured myself But as we yelled
a drink. back, the bouncer
Then my mate Sarah* overheard and came
knocked at the door. dashing over.
‘Let’s party,’ she cheered. The man
We’d gone out a lot together continued to cause a
pre-baby. I loved being a new scene, so they had no
mum, but I couldn’t wait to get choice but remove
dolled up, have a boogie and let him from the bar.
my hair down. ‘Right, it’s time for
‘What do you think of these you to leave,’ the
shoes?’ I asked her, slipping on security guard said
a pair of heels. sternly to the
‘Perfect,’ she smiled. aggressive stranger.
The two of us got ready He angrily made
together, before going into his way to the exit,
town to meet our friend Kate*. and then the bouncer
With a last slick of lipstick, I turned to us.
picked up my clutch bag and ‘You, too,’ he
we headed out. added, showing us
It was a chilly November the door.
night last year, but it wasn’t far ‘What?’ I said,
to walk. confused. ‘But we
When we arrived, we headed didn’t do anything.’
into the local ‘Spoons. He was having
‘I’ll get the first round,’ I said none of it though.
excitedly, making my way Rather than make
towards the bar. a fuss, we all just
D. We found ourselves a seat grabbed our bags and
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A few pitchers. It was a shame the I JUST WANTED
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S. *N the crowd to the bar. leaving the club. A night out turned into a
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SW please,’ I shouted, nightmare for Lauren Foster,
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A smoking area,’ she said. turned to me was happening and leapt in the Another bouncer quickly
N We made our way across the ‘He’s got a knife!’ she way and tried to hold him back. called 999, and another helped
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RS dance floor to go outside. shouted in horror. But it was too late. me back into the club and led
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S ‘Do you know where I can get blade called a zombie knife. screaming in horror. out of my arm.
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finally able to go was shown CCTV images of
home – that’s when Clow running across to us with
I really started to a blade in his hand.
process everything. He performed four slashing
I could hardly movements, striking me –
believe it. despite the security officers’
Thankfully, I’d attempts to hold him back.
been given a lot of The judge said there could
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that night. ‘absolutely horrific’ weapon.
It was supposed It left me with deep cuts, in
to be a fun night need of stitches and with
out with friends, permanent scarring.
but it ended like Joshua Clow, 18, of Brookcot
something from a Road in Manchester, was
horror film. sentenced to six years in jail for
A friend came to wounding with intent,
stay with me for possession of a bladed article
the night, and the and assault.
next day, Sarah I felt as though the sentence
moved in with me could have been longer.
for a few weeks to He’ll probably end up only
help me out. serving three years, but I’ll
That’s when the have these scars for life.
pain started It did give me some closure
kicking in. finally, though.
My injuries But the attack also left some
made it difficult to deeper, psychological scars.
do everyday tasks At first, I blamed the
like dressing or bouncers for kicking me out.
showering, let But as time passed, I realised
alone look after it wasn’t their fault – they were
my son, who was just doing their jobs, and could
only seven never have predicted what
months old. happened to me.
Over the I’ve battled anxiety, had
months, the cuts trouble sleeping and struggled
healed – but the to leave the house.
scars served as a Despite the difficulty I’ve had
permanent getting back on my feet though,
reminder of that it does get easier.
awful evening. I’ve found my confidence
Joshua Clow
Slowly but again, thanks to the support
was jailed
surely, I was from friends and family.
getting better, I hope I can help other
but the whole people who might have been
incident left me through something similar.
severely shaken up. The attack was random, and
I’d said. ‘Can you get my mum The case eventually went to I won’t let it hold me back – I’ve
to ring me?’ Chester Crown Court in May even been back out to the same
‘Of course,’ he said. this year – six months after the club since.
While I was still at the attack happened. I won’t let what happened
happened started to sink in. hospital, Mum rang me back. During the trial, the court rule my life.
‘Oh my God,’ I cried, feeling ‘Oh my God, are
faint at the sight of it. you OK?’ she
I felt sick. asked, in shock.
It was all a blur. ‘I’m OK,’ I said.
I’m moving on
Police and paramedics ‘I’m just getting
arrived at the scene, and I was stitched up, I’ll see
whisked off to North you tomorrow.’
Staffordshire Hospital to be Later that
checked over. evening, the police
I was sent for a scan and arrived, too, to take
luckily, I didn’t need surgery. my statement.
But the five-inch long cut on ‘Someone has
my back was so deep, I needed been arrested,’ the
stitches inside and outside. officer explained.
Still shaking, I called Mum. The man who’d
She didn’t answer, so I rang stabbed me was
her boyfriend Paul, who was at 18-year-old Joshua
work at the time. Clow, and he’d
‘I’ve been stabbed,’ I cried, been remanded
and I could hear his sharp in custody.
intake of breath at the end of After a few hours
the line as he processed what in hospital, I was
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Jordan Hatmaker, 35, was
terrified when her
parachute broke in mid-air...
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tepping up to the licence?’ my friend Carlye,
plane door, I felt a who was an experienced
gust of wind smack skydiver, suggested.
me in the face. It would mean I could
I was a whopping skydive without supervision.
13,500ft in the air. ‘Why not?’ I said.
Taking a deep breath, I I started training, and with
Skydiving feels
squeezed my eyes tight, leaned each jump I practiced a new
like flying
forward and jumped. skill – like plane exits, safety
My stomach dropped as I drills and moves in the sky.
plummeted to the ground. I was halfway through my
As air whooshed around me, training in November last motions for me to follow – the force of it made my main
I opened my eyes. year, when I woke up one directing me to flip this way chute inflate.
The view was incredible. Sunday morning and looked and that. That created a downplane –
This is like flying, I thought out of the window. It went perfectly. when two parachutes are
as I soared, completely in awe. It was clear, sunny and not Then we moved away from inflated simultaneously and
I could see for miles, and as too windy. each other to pull our they drag away from each
adrenaline pumped through Perfect day to skydive, I parachutes – the aim was to get other, causing you to spiral
me, I pulled my parachute and thought to myself. as far away from each other as towards the ground.
floated back to earth. ‘I’m going to the hangar,’ I possible, so we both had room. Landing a downplane
‘I can’t believe I did it!’ I said told my brother Chase, 33, who But as I pulled mine, I without life-changing injuries
to my instructor, as my feet lived with me. realised something was wrong. or even surviving at all was
landed on solid ground. ‘I’ll come and watch,’ he said. As I looked down, I saw that nearly impossible.
I got the bug, and from that ‘I’ll bring the dogs, too.’ my pilot chute – the smaller But before I had time to
first jump, I was hooked. I had two little cockapoos parachute that pulls out the think, or even get scared, I
Between 2015 and 2020, I called Jax and Ella. main canopy – was completely smacked into the ground.
did five tandem skydives – each When we got there, I got into tangled around my leg. There was a sickening
one was better than the last. the queue behind the other It was stopping my main crunch as my left leg bounced
I was just completely divers, and Chase went to walk chute from releasing. back from the force, and I
addicted to thrill-seeking. the pups around. My leg was suspended in the landed on my back.
‘Why don’t you get your But then he stopped. air as I continued to free fall – I was lucky to be alive.
‘I’ve got a really bad with nothing to slow me down I tried to get up – in
feeling about today,’ he as I hurtled to the ground. skydiving, once you land,
said. ‘I don’t think you I was falling at 200ft per you’re supposed to
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