Table Of ContentEthics and ProfEssional issuEs 
in couPlE and family thEraPy
Ethics and Professional Issues in Couple and Family Therapy, Second Edition, 
builds upon the strong foundations of the first edition. This new edition 
addresses the 2015 American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy 
Code of Ethics as well as other professional organizations’ codes of ethics, 
and includes three new chapters: one on in-home family therapy, a com-
mon method of providing therapy to clients, particularly those involved 
with child protective services; one chapter on Health Insurance Portability 
and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA) and Health Information Technol-
ogy for Economic and Clinical Health (HITECH) regulations that practic-
ing therapists need to know; and one chapter on professional issues, in 
which topics such as advertising, professional identity, supervision, and 
research ethics are addressed. This book is intended as a training text for 
students studying to be marriage and family therapists.
Megan J. Murphy, PhD, LMFT, is an associate professor and director of the 
Marriage and Family Therapy Program at Purdue University  Northwest in 
Hammond, Indiana. She currently serves as a commissioner on the Com-
mission on Accreditation for Marriage and Family Therapy Education and 
was a coeditor of Families Across Time: A Life Course Perspective (Oxford 
University Press, 2000).
Lorna Hecker, PhD, LMFT, is a professor and director of the Couple and 
Family Therapy Center at Purdue University Northwest in Hammond, Indi-
ana. She is Certified in Healthcare Privacy and Security expertise in HIPAA 
and HITECH regulations. She edited the first edition of E  thics and P  rofessional 
Issues in Couple and Family Therapy, and her previous  publications include 
The Therapist’s Notebook: Homework, Handouts, and Activities for Use in 
 Psychotherapy (Volumes 1, 2, and 3), The Therapist’s Notebook for  Children 
and Adolescents, and An Introduction to  Marriage and  Family Therapy 
 (Routledge).  She  also  authored  the  book  HIPAA   Demystified:  HIPAA 
 Compliance for Mental Health Professionals (Loger Press).
“The second edition of the Murphy and Hecker book is excellently writ-
ten with illustrative case vignettes and is even more comprehensive than 
the original version. The additional chapters about HIPAA and HITECH, 
home-based therapy, and professional private practice issues make the 
book a must for all C/MFT training programs and private practitioners.”
—Volker Thomas, PhD, LMFT, professor of couple and  
family therapy, University of Iowa (retired)
“Ethics and Professional Issues in Couple and Family Therapy is full of pre-
ventive care and interventions for couple and family therapists in clinical 
practice. The distinguished editors and contributors provide pages of prac-
tical suggestions and recommendations to maintain best practices. The 
authors took great care to untangle complex ethical, legal, and technical 
issues, which makes the book an easy, but informative read for experienced 
clinicians and CFT students. The culturally diverse case examples illustrate 
how therapists can avoid common pitfalls inherent in clinical practice and 
the importance of self-care. This book should be a required reading for 
students in CFT programs!”
—Stephanie Brooks, PhD, LCSW, LMFT, chair, Couple and Family 
Therapy Department; associate dean, Graduate Health  
Professions, Drexel University
“This is an indispensable resource on ethical issues in the practice of couple 
and family therapy. The second edition includes a comprehensive review 
of new HIPAA and HITECH regulations, and the latest AAMFT code of 
ethics. Clear and concrete examples are used to drive home major points. 
I highly recommend this book to any couple and family therapy student, 
instructor, or licensed provider.”
—Andrea K. Wittenborn, PhD, graduate director, associate  
professor, Human Development and Family Studies,  
Michigan State University
Ethics and 
ProfEssional 
issuEs in  
couPlE and 
family thEraPy
second Edition
Edited by Megan J. Murphy 
and Lorna Hecker
Second edition published 2017  
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Library of Congress Cataloging-in-Publication Data
Names: Murphy, Megan J., editor. | Hecker, Lorna L., editor. 
Title: Ethics and professional issues in couple and family therapy / edited by  
Megan J. Murphy and Lorna Hecker. 
Description: Second edition. | New York, NY: Routledge, 2017. 
Includes bibliographical references and index. 
Identifiers: LCCN 2016019391 | ISBN 9781138645257 (hbk: alk. paper) |  
ISBN 9781138645264 (pbk: alk. paper) | ISBN 9781315628240 (ebk)
Subjects: LCSH: Family psychotherapy—Moral and ethical aspects. | Marital  
psychotherapy—Moral and ethical aspects. | Family therapists—Professional ethics. |  
Marriage counselors—Professional ethics. 
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Contents
Preface  vii
1  Introduction  1
Lorna Hecker and Megan J. Murphy
2  Ethical Decision-Making from a Relational Perspective  17
Elisabeth Shaw
3  Legal Issues in Couple and Family Therapy  37
Ruth Ogden Halstead and John H. Halstead
4  The Impact of HIPAA and HITECH Regulations on  
the Couple and Family Therapist  59
Lorna Hecker, Courtney L. Miner, and Megan J. Murphy
5  Self of the Therapist: Being Aware, Prepared, and Ethical  81
Jared A. Durtschi and Melanie McClellan
6  Power, Privilege, and Ethics in Couple and Family Therapy  99
Megan J. Murphy and Lorna Hecker
7  Sexuality, Boundaries, and Ethics  121
Teresa L. Young and René A. Jones
8  Risk Management in Practice  141
Amber Sampson
9  Spirituality and Religion  163
Rebecca A. Cobb, Jacob B. Priest, and Taimyr B. Strachan
10  Ethics in Therapy with Children in Families  183
Lorna Hecker and Catherine Ford Sori
11  Ethical, Legal, and Professional Issues in Mediation  
and Parent Coordination  205
Julia M. Bernard, Nicole Manick, and Maike Klein
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12  Ethical Issues in Clinical Practice  223
Z. Seda Sahin and Julie Ramisch
13  Ethical Issues with Systemic and Social  
Constructionist Family Therapies  243
Joseph L. Wetchler and Rachel M. Moore
14  Ethical Couple and Family E-Therapy  261
Markie L. C. Twist and Katherine M. Hertlein
15  Ethical and Clinical Considerations for  
Home-Based Family Therapy  283
Kiran M. Hussain, M. Evan Thomas, Shannon Polezoes,  
and Léa El Helou
16  Ethics of Professionalism  299
Megan J. Murphy and Amber Sampson
Index   319
Preface
Primum non nocere—First, do no harm.
Hippocrates (c. 460–400 BC)
You likely chose the field of couple and family therapy because of a desire 
to help people and would likely be aghast at the notion of harming your 
clients. Yet without proper knowledge, you can make decisions that can 
indeed cause harm to clients, your own professional practice, the larger 
professional field, and yourself. The chapters in this book have been c hosen 
to educate you on the most salient topics regarding the intertwining of 
ethical, legal, clinical, and professional issues faced by couple and family 
therapists.
This book is a revision on the first edition, edited by Hecker in 2010. 
This book grapples with contemporary ethical and professional issues, 
some of which have changed or recently arisen or transformed since that 
writing. For example, in this edition, linear decision-making is replaced 
with a relationally focused ethical decision-making process that relies 
much more on clients’ context and the responsibilities therapists have to 
consider when making ethical decisions with clients. Power and privilege 
issues have been updated to include a focus on power issues that arise in 
choice of our theories, the therapeutic relationship, and in clients’ relation-
ships with each other. The power of a therapist with regard to maintaining 
sexual boundaries and how to handle sexual harassment is detailed. The 
complexity reflected in intersectionality is introduced.
A new standard of care has arisen with privacy protections for our cli-
ents’ oral, written, or digital private information, with the advent of the 
Health Insurance Portability and Accountability Act of 1996 (HIPAA) as 
well as the subsequent Health Information Technology for Economic and 
Clinical Health (HITECH) Act of 2009. HIPAA audits were mandated by 
HITECH, and lawsuits are beginning to occur using HIPAA regulations 
as the standard of care for client privacy protection, whether or not you 
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are a “covered entity” under the regulations. HIPAA security regulations 
stress the importance of maintaining privacy of digitally stored client data, 
which can be overlooked by more of us who favor “high touch” over “high 
tech.” Specific information around ethical issues within e-therapy is also 
discussed, with a framework from which to conceptualize e-therapy clini-
cal and ethical issues presented.
Couple and family therapists’ entwinement with the legal system is 
explored, educating the reader on properly responding to a subpoena, while 
still focusing on the ever-important duty to warn or protect. Additionally, 
career opportunities that intersect with the legal system such as the role 
of a couple and family therapist as mediator and parent coordinator are 
explored. As we look at CFT involvement with custody issues on children, 
we also address the increasingly recognized phenomenon of parental 
alienation from a child.
In our first edition, office policies and procedures were explained; in 
this book, we also delve into requirements to establish a private practice, 
including information on opening a business, applying to insurance pan-
els, and necessary documentation.
We recognize that more and more therapists are providing in-home 
family therapy, which evokes particular attention to ethical principles, 
including  confidentiality,  boundaries,  and  safety.  Self-of-the-therapist 
issues are addressed and include knowing one’s own values, implement-
ing a program of self-care, and warning signs for burnout and compassion 
fatigue. Finally, we have added a chapter on ethics of professionalism—to 
remind us that we represent our professional fields through our actions 
and behaviors. We are indeed connected to something larger than our-
selves—the field of family therapy.
This is a book for professionals who want to understand the context of 
complex situations in which couple and family therapists find themselves. 
It is a book for couple and family therapists who, consistent with their sys-
tems training, will grasp multilevel problems, grapple with them, and go 
through a reasoned analysis to find a solution that best meets the needs 
of the people involved. As in the 2010 edition of this book, readers are 
introduced to ethical principles for consideration in ethical deliberation 
and decision-making. In an ideal world, all therapists would be trained in 
moral philosophy; that ideal is clearly outside the scope of this book. This 
book can be used as an introductory graduate text in marriage and family 
therapy graduate programs, professionals wishing to expand their depth 
and understanding of the field, or by those refreshing their knowledge of 
professional issue and ethics for licensing exams.
Preface  ix
You will no doubt have quandaries when faced with ethical dilemmas 
posed in this book. Answers to ethical dilemmas often introduce com-
plexity for which answers to those dilemmas also result in a refrain of “it 
depends.” Many variables contribute to evaluation when making sound 
ethical decisions. A tolerance of ambiguity is necessary for anyone who 
truly wishes to struggle with ethical dilemmas. You have to be able to 
juggle many diverging solutions (and viewpoints) at once before the best 
action can be chosen. Sometimes the best solution is obvious; other times, 
there are competing “best” courses of action. Sometimes, all alternatives 
to an ethical dilemma simply are not satisfying or can even be repugnant. 
Early foreclosure on decisions to decrease your accompanying anxiety can 
lead to situations (ethical, clinical, or legal) that are worse than the pre-
dicament that was initially raised. Although some ethical/clinical decisions 
need to be made quickly, there are many situations in which the therapist 
can decelerate the process to thoroughly scrutinize the situation at hand.
In this book, you will find numerous case scenarios, many based on 
actual experiences to give the reader a sense of the richness of ethical issues 
that may present themselves in therapy. In some, the ethical or legal issues 
at hand may be quite evident, whereas in others it may be subtle and you 
will need to search for the shades of gray that continuously make ethics a 
challenging but worthwhile pursuit. All case scenarios have had identify-
ing information of the clients and case-specific information altered to pro-
tect the confidentiality of the client.
Unfortunately, in our personal experience, we have encountered thera-
pists who have not followed the “do no harm” dictate and have hurt people 
when they violate their professional and moral responsibilities. In some 
circumstances, there has been egregious harm. We have seen others believe 
that they are without moral fault—this alone is a dangerous stance. The 
people who believe themselves to be without moral fault put themselves 
outside the realm of dialogue, and relationships become secondary to their 
agenda. Dialogue is key to resolving most ethical dilemmas. It our hope 
that you engage in much dialogue as you traverse this book. It is our quest, 
then, that therapists be educated about ethics for the very positive goal of 
helping clients, but at the very least, Primum non nocere. This book pro-
vides education, insight, and tools to help you adequately prepare for ethi-
cal practice as a couple and family therapist.