Table Of Content
Table of Contents
Copyright
My Story
Biggest Misconceptions of Attraction
The Difference Between Men and Women
You’re Being Brainwashed
The Unattractive Guy
The Attractive Man
The Body Language of the Attractive Man
How to Approach Women
What Do I Say
What NOT to Say
Dry Talk Vs Emotional Kick
How to Never Run Out of Things to Say
How to Touch
Girl Test
How to Kiss a Girl
How to Deal with Her Friends
How to Deal with Other Guys
4 Types of Guys
Body Language of a Woman Attracted to You
How to Avoid the Friend Zone
Build Attraction Through Speech
Make the Girl Chase You
Exchanging Numbers
What to Text a Girl
The Date
Taking a Girl Home
Sex
The 2 Main Types of Girls
Stay Humble
Copyright
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First Printing, 2018
My Story
I would highly recommend you read this chapter because I have made many
mistakes throughout my journey that I regret. If you avoid these mistakes, you
will have more fun and close relationships with the girls you meet.
Ever since I was a kid my family would constantly move out to different areas or
even different countries throughout the years. It was usually because my dad
found a better paying job. This constant and frequent change of houses and
school led me to become the loneliest I’ve ever been.
Every 2-3 years my parents would decide to move out causing me to always lose
all my friends. Every time I had to change schools I had to go through the
awkwardness of making new friends, having no idea where all my classes where
and always being the “new kid”.
Even though being the “new kid” led to popularity, it never lasted very long.
Once I started to build my social circle and started to get settled it was time to
move to a new place again. And the cycle goes on and on.
By the time I was 15 I moved for the last time to a British school. All the
moving around led me to easily make friends because of my personality. I have
done it so many times it became second nature for me.
I wasn’t however popular by any means. In fact, I had very minimal friends, I
was a nerd, I loved video games, I wasn’t attractive at all (super skinny, bad
posture, terrible acne, bucked teeth), I was super shy (I wouldn’t even raise my
hand in class because I was so shy) and I never ever talked to girls. My mind
would go blank every time a girl would start a conversation with me.
This all however changed when I met a girl from my school. I can’t remember
how exactly I met her but I just know we used to text each other a lot.
We slowly started to talk to each other and she started touching me. I was
extremely shy so I never knew how to hold a conversation and always blushed
and froze every time she would touch me.
I would always give her compliments and she would show interest back, I would
buy her a massive box of her favourite chocolate when she was upset, I basically
did everything the Hollywood movies told me to do to “get the girl”.
I would even leave my best friends to be with her to show her how much I liked
her. I even went as far as writing an apology letter and hand delivering it to her
door at 5 o’clock in the morning one day when I upset her. Her house was a 45-
minute walk, but that didn’t bother me.
I would ask her if she wanted to be my girlfriend multiple times but every time I
asked she would change conversation or say “Give it another month” even
though I have been talking to her for over 7 months.
There were times where I had enough and I told her that “We should stop talking
to each other for a while” or that “We should move on” even though I really
liked her. All the times I sent her a text like that she would ask me to meet her
and when I did she would hug me and tell me to not stop talking to her and
trying to manipulate me into staying in this weird manipulative relationship (we
were never an “official” couple by the way).
Long story short the day came where she said the words no guy wants to hear…
“We should just be friends”. I admit I cried over this text but in hindsight I
appreciate her because she has made me the man I am today.
I just got heart broken by the first girl I truly liked and I was furious.
I became a different person after this “brake up”. I started not giving a **** and
it felt awesome. I would talk to multiple girls and I wouldn’t care what I said or
if she liked what I said. I would tease girls and make sexual jokes (even though I
was a virgin), I wouldn’t start becoming shy when girls would touch me and
girls would respond to me even though I was not attractive. I would rarely give
them a compliment and would never buy them anything but somehow they
would text me and confess their feelings for me.
I wouldn’t just talk to girls. I would make more guy friends as well because I
was so confident and start joking around with teachers. Next thing you know I
was one of the most popular people in school which made more girls attracted to
me (We will talk about why later).
It wasn’t all positive experiences with girls though. I had my fair shares of
stalkers, really needy girls, creepy girls, girls that would show up at my house,
girls fighting over me, twin sisters liking me…. When I tell you that girls will be
chasing you, at first it sounds awesome but you will slowly come to realise that
it is not all that great.
Within 2 months my phone would blow up with messages from girls. I
remember there was a time I had to talk to all the girls on Facebook from my
laptop because my phone would slow down. It couldn’t handle all the messages.
Remember the girl that broke my heart? Well I used to talk to her 2 best-friends.
They both admitted to having feelings towards me.
It didn’t take long for me to get my first real girlfriend and she was the hottest
girl in school. She was a Romanian goddess with a gorgeous face and a perfect
sexy body. Anyone I came across would tell me that she is out of my league and
that I was really lucky to have her. What they didn’t know though was that I
slowly started to not feel that attracted to her. She became very needy. She
would text me multiple times a day, she would want send me cringe photos
about “true love” and she wouldn’t leave me alone.
I was with my friends, she was there. I was eating, she was there. I wanted to go
to the toilet, she would wait outside. I hated it. I realised something very
powerful. I saw the same characteristics she had on me, before I became good
with girls.
What I didn’t realise at the time was a started to develop these characteristic
traits that made women respond to me. I later on realised that they were called
“Alpha Male Traits” and I saw a pattern. Every guy that women would chase
had these characteristics about them. (We will talk about these Alpha Male
Traits later on)
I wanted to get even better with girls so I would search on the internet for “How
to get better with girls” and “How to become more attractive”. I came across a
very popular book called “The Game by Neil Strauss”. This is when I got
introduced to the world of pick up. The book would talk about a man that goes
by the name of “Mystery” who was extremely good with girls. I wanted to be
like Mystery so I picked up his book called “The Mystery Method” and watched
every single episode of his TV show “The Pick-Up Artist”.
I started to try out “Day Game” as the pickup artists call it. This is when you try
to attract women throughout the day. Most of the times it will be a girl or group
of girls walking down the street or they might be shopping / having coffee etc.
I had to walk to college and the only way of getting there is to walk through a
busy town centre full of shops. As you can guess, it is always packed with
women. I remember I couldn’t approach a single girl for three days straight.
Sometimes I would manage to get a sound to come out of my mouth while I
extend my hand to get their attention but I would freeze.
I haven’t managed to talk to a girl yet because my anxiety got the best of me, but
that didn’t stop me from continuing to study attraction.
At this point I had a rough understanding of what “pick up” was all about. I
didn’t however believe in some of the “techniques” that where taught in the
books I read but I decided to give it another go.
I went to the same shopping mall I had to go through to go to college and I
spotted a girl I recognised from college that I found attractive. She passed me
and I decided to use my new skills. I jogged after her from behind and said
“Excuse me” 3 times before she heard me. As she turned around I realised that
my mind went blank. I have forgotten everything I have learnt.
By some miracle I managed to start a conversation with her. I admitted to her
that I found her attractive and I remember we talked about the weather. (Don’t
talk about the weather with a girl you want to attract).
I managed to get her number. I went home and we texted each other back and
forth for a while until I gathered up the courage to ask her out for coffee.
She agreed!
Turns out the day we were meant to go for coffee she didn’t want to meet up
anymore. I didn’t mind because I have done something that I never thought was
possible. I managed to exchange numbers and almost go on a date with a girl I
met on the street by doing and saying the wrong things. Imagine if I used the
advice given to me by the books I have read.
That was the start of my journey into the world of attraction.
I started going out and testing every technique I learnt to see what works and
what doesn’t work. I would treat it as a game. Every girl was a mini level for me
to defeat so I can level up. Approaching a girl wasn’t scary for me anymore
because if I failed I can just restart the level (Go to another girl).
All the success with women boosted my ego so much that I wasn’t thinking
straight. I ruined friendships, played around with people’s feelings and was
disrespectful most of the times. These are the worst mistakes I made and I
understand that now. I learnt from my mistakes. Don’t make the same mistakes
as me.
This book will teach you techniques to attract women. Whether you want to
attract the hottest girl in the club or the ugliest, NEVER use these techniques for
a bad purpose.
The Biggest Misconceptions of Attraction
I recently met up with a friend I hadn’t seen in a while. We were discussing all
kinds of topics. Cars, movies women. When the subject of women and dating
came up I asked him how his dating life was going. His answer astonished me.
“I don’t have a dating life. Every time I try to attract a girl I end up getting
friend-zoned. I should just give up with women, I don’t think dating is for me. If
only I was good looking and rich, I could get any girl I want”.
At that point I didn’t want to start an argument with him on why he was
completely wrong, so I changed the conversation into something more pleasant.
Let me tell you why he was wrong.
The truth is men who aren’t good with women are frowned upon in our society.
They are seen as the underdog and everyone feels sorry for them. So what do
men do? They find delusional excuses as to why they can’t attract women. Those
excuses are always portrayed in a way that makes them seem like the victim so
people can sympathise with them. It’s never their fault. They believe that being
attractive to women is out of their control.
If they don’t find a good enough reasonable excuse they seem like a failure. This
makes them feel like society is constantly judging them.
Men are constantly coming up with different excuses to cover up for their
failures with women. We are going to analyse the most popular excuses created
by men as to why they aren’t good with women and why they are bullshit.
Excuse #1: I’m Not Good Looking Enough
I must confess…looks DO matter to a certain extent, but not nearly as much as
you think they matter. Let me explain.
Society has created this imaginary grading system that tells us we are only aloud
to flirt and be intimate with people that have the same “attraction rating” as us.
In other words, you can’t find a girlfriend or have sex with a girl that is “out of
your league”.
