KEZIANOBLE - Kezia Noble | Pick Up Artist | World's

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The Text And Phone Game
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Hello
First of all, thank you for purchasing this e-book. I hope the
information and insight in this book will help you as much as it
has helped all my past students.
Please read every point carefully and if you have any further
questions, feel free to email me at [email protected] As you
can imagine, I get hundreds of emails a day, but will do my very
best to make one of your emails a priority email.
In order for me to respond to your email quickly. It would be a
big help if you could title your email with “QUESTION ON
PURCHASED E-BOOK”
But I believe I have covered very point there is in this e-book on
“phone and text’ game, so I doubt you will need any further
assistance on this subject once you have read it all.
Now sit back, and absorb!
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INTRODUCTION
Since I joined the pick-up seduction community back in 2006, I have listened, watched and read a
fair amount of material from various dating coaches on the subject of ‘text and phone game’
Although there is some really great advice and material out there from some genuinely amazing
teachers, there is also, unfortunately, a lot of teachers/dating coaches who have given out
techniques and routines that I genuinely felt would only result in either making a guy come across
as a complete weirdo, or would fail to make any substantial impact at all.
I have been dating men since I was 14. Can you imagine how many text messages I have received
from men I have given my number out to? And add on to that, the amount of text messages that all
my female friends have shown me from all the men that THEY had given their numbers out to? We
are talking a lot of text messages here!
I know from FIRST HAND EXPERIENCE what works and what does not work!
The first point I want to mention before sharing all the tips, techniques, routines and insight that I
will share with you in this book is this:
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Yes, you read right. If you made
enough impact, connection and
sexual escalation/tension in the
interaction with the woman before or
after she gave you her number, then
what you do by way of text messages
and phone calls bares nearly no
importance what so ever.
If a woman respects you and is
attracted to you, then she will be
happy to reply to your text message
even if it’s dull and unimaginative.
If she really likes you, then she will
be happy to meet up with you, even
if you arrange to meet her on the coldest day of the year in an area or venue she doesn’t even
like. (I am telling this from first hand personal experience)
So how will this e-book help you?
Surely if she gives you her number, then she likes you right?
Surely if she gives you her number, then the deal is sealed and she will be more than happy to
come and meet you on the coldest day of the year?
WRONG!
Here is an interesting statistic:
7 out of 10 times women give their number to men, who they are actually not even attracted to
yet. (The reason for this will be explained in greater detail in the e-book later on) So as a result, in
order for men to get the woman to agree to see him again, he should regard the text/phoning part
as the ‘deal breaker’
Think of the text/ phoning part as the lubricant you need in order to bring you both together
again.
A lot of what I teach is slightly unorthodox, and will go against what MANY female dating coaches
teach. I have always felt that the female dating coaches, with all their good intentions,
unfortunately tend to give men the advice that sounds ‘pleasing’ to other women, but
unfortunately, nearly always produces little or no results. And on the other side of the spectrum, I
have found that some male pick up coaches tend to tell guys what they WANT to hear, and as a
result, the men send text messages and make phone calls that leave them looking ‘big headed’
rather than confident or down right WEIRD, rather than original!
There is a very fine balance when it comes to coming across as original rather than
weird
I pride myself in giving the type of routines; tips, techniques, advice and insight that is a happy
medium between the two, and most importantly, will give YOU the results you deserve.
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Why is text game and text follow up and phone game and phone follow up so important?
When you get a woman’s number, you might be thinking:
“Yes! She likes me! And so getting her to agree to a date is going to be EASY!!!!”
Well, in some cases, this is true. But a lot of the time, women give their telephone numbers out,
because of the following:
• You persuaded her well
• She enjoyed the feeling of the ‘moment’ you created when getting her number.
• She was drunk
• She gave it, with only HALF the intention to ACTUALLY follow up.
This is why, so many guys can’t understand why women flake out when they try and text or phone
her to arrange a date.
Just because a woman makes up her mind to give you her number, this does not mean she has
MADE UP HER MIND TO SEE YOU AGAIN.
Very often what you write in a text or what you say on the phone can clinch you the deal, or
unfortunately ruin it.
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Now, what do you usually do when you get a girls number?
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with men I have given my number out to and from working with my students, that you probably
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text her next day (possibly-when she’s still hung over) with something like this classic example:
“Hey great meeting you last night, lets meet up sometimes. I’m free on Wednesday if you are up
for it..xx”
Now let’s dissect step by step and word for word what is so WRONG with a common and
ineffective text like this!
First of all, this is the common type of response that us girls get. I literally have a graveyard of
texts that are like this and so do millions of other girls too. Ask yourself: ‘What impact does this
make’?
The answer is ZERO.
You might think that you are the only guy in the club she handed her number over to, but it’s
often NOT the case. Even if you were the ONLY guy she gave her number to, this kind of text
makes ZERO impact on her. You might be lucky if she replies with the usual polite (but useless)
and robotic /auto pilot response:
“Hey, nice meeting you too. send me a text next week ;-)”
This probably does not mean, “I’m playing hard to get” this probably means:
“I have the good manners to reply, but I don’t really have any urge to see you again any time
soon”
As soon as she gives you her number there is POTENTIAL, but its what you do with that
potential that matters!
When you write any of the classically USELESS follow up texts such as
“Hey, was really nice meeting you last night, give me a call sometime”
Or
“Hey, I really had fun last night. We must do it again sometime”
Or
“Hey, Hope you had fun the rest of the night. Send me a text when you want to hang out
sometime”
She will feel that you are just using a STANDARD text on her that you use whenever you meet any
girl on a night out. So not only will it make no impact, but it will also make her feel as if you are
making ZERO effort in getting to see her again.
NOTE: Before you shout from behind your laptop:
“But Kezia! I have used those text message lines before, and the girls have always responded
well”
THE RESON FOR THIS IS BECAUSE SHE LIKED YOU WHEN SHE MET YOU
Therefore, as I said right from the very start, whatever you text that girl, it will make barely any
difference in your chances of securing a date with her.
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“Hey great meeting you last night, lets meet up sometimes. I’m free on Wednesday if you are up
for it..xx”
We have established this text (and other text messages of this nature) make no impact and
consequently it will NOT force a response from your target.
But also ask yourself: What does it say about YOU when you say:
“It was great meeting you” ?
It can come across ‘over excited’ and ‘overly grateful to meet her.
DO NOT GIVE HER TOO MUCH VALUE UNTIL SHE HAS EARNED IT.
Do you think she thought meeting you was GREAT?
She probably thought it was O.K or maybe NICE. So why hand her that much value if she might
not have felt the same as you about the encounter?
What else is wrong with the wording of this text?
“Lets meet up sometime..”
This is too vague.
A lot of guys think if they keep it casual and ‘open’ for suggestions, then this will some how
magically force her to respond with a list of days that she is available. This is nearly never the
case. Consequently she will only respond back vaguely with something like this:
“..Yeah, I’m busy next week, but give me a bell the week after that”
This translates to: “I’m probably NOT going to see you again, but I will be polite rather than hurt
your feelings, and hopefully soon you will get the message and piss off ;-)”
This is ACTUALLY what me and my friends have WANTED to respond with, to guys we were not
interested in. I know it sounds harsh, but it’s true.
I usually have a standard reply, which is this one:
“Nice to meet you to, I will give you a call next week some time”
But here’s the worst part of the text:
“..xx”
Little kisses should not be added until you have at least KISSED her FOR REAL.
“..xx” shouts :
“Love”
“sweet”
“I really like you”
“cuddles”
This again is a classic case of giving her way too much value far too early on.
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Just in case, you wanted to see more classic text mistakes, here are some straight out of the
phones of me and my friends, that I felt made little or no impact and demonstrated no high value
what so ever (all names have been changed):
“Hey it was really nice meeting you last night- Ken”
“Hey, I really enjoyed myself last night, I hope you did too. Give me a buzz if you want to hang out
sometime”
“Hey Natalie. It was lovely meeting you the other night, Lets grab a coffee some time..xx”
“Hey Kezia, you probably met loads of people last night, I’m Gary (guy with the red jumper-lol)
how are you?”
“Hey,it’s me john.. Hope you got
home ok last night. What are the
rest of your weekend plans?”
And last but not least, here is the
dreaded ‘long text’ that all us girls
get sent to us from time to time:
“Hey its me Phillip, It was really
nice meeting you last night. I think
you’re really funny and very
beautiful. I decided to go to
another club with my friends
afterwards, it was really great,
shame you couldn’t join us, they
had an amazing DJ there and a
cool roof garden. It would be cool
if you came along with me next
week..xx”
QUICK NOTE:
Try and keep your texts the same lengths as the ones that she sends you.
So now you get the idea of what does not work. We will now look at the number of texts you can
send that DO work. But first, lets have a look at your objective from sending the text message,
which is getting her to SPEAK to you on the phone, and ultimately arranging a follow-up date.
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Speaking on the phone is by far, more personal than text messages, and you will find that by
speaking to the girl on the phone it will help to stop her potentially flaking on you.
When people text each other, they get into a situation where by they feel they have the right to
not have to commit to a planned arrangement.
Its’ much less of a SOLID commitment when people arrange something via text, as it is easy to
simply just a send another text saying:
“Hey, I’m really sorry, but I have a bad headache and cant make it tonight, text me soon..xx”
Sound familiar?
When an arrangement has been made by two people via a phone call, it usually means the one
who can not make the date will have to actually call the person in order to break the commitment,
which people do not usually like doing, so they feel they HAVE to keep to that commitment, rather
than breaking it.
I always urge my students to get to the point of being able to phone the woman when he chooses
with full confidence that she will pick up the phone as soon as she sees his name flashing up on
her screen.
People she answers her phone to are the following:
-Boyfriends
-Family
-Friends
-Work
-Men she is attracted to!
People she does not answer her phone to:
-Men she met in a bar or on the street, that she has since decided she doesn’t want to meet up
with!
YOU WANT TO PUT YOURSELF IN TO THE FIRST CATEGORY RATHER THAN THE LATTER!
The text options I am now going to share with you will help take you from text message to phone
conversation both quickly and smoothly
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So what is a ping text?
A ping text is when you send a text message to a girl that grabs her attention and forces her to
respond and it also gives you a signal to know whether she is at that moment too busy to speak to
you.
Ping texts do not make much logical sense, and as a result they break patterns and get the
woman to become curious, and as a further result she begins investing in you a lot more.
Ping texts are also a great way to indicate whether a woman is available to speak on the phone,
(which should be your objective)
These are a list of ping texts that I have given my students, and they have sent these ping texts in
front of me, only to have a response within 2 minutes!
THE ‘PUPPY’ PING:
“ Doberman Pincher or Dalmatian?” (You can pick any two dogs, but these 2 for some reason
produce the desired effect most)
Girl usually responds with:
“Huh? What do you mean?”
Or
“Why are you asking?”
Just by getting her to respond with either of these replies means you have achieved two
objectives.
1.She is responding, (and usually straight away), instead of leaving your text message for a few
hours until she can be bothered to reply.
2.You are able to indicate whether she is busy or not. If she replies within 5 minutes, then this
means she is not too busy to take your call.
When she replies, you should respond with this:
“I’m thinking about buying a puppy silly!” or ‘dopey’ (your choice)
She will then respond with the following:
“Oh. I don’t know. I prefer cats/I like Labradors/I don’t know much bout dogs..Etc”
Or
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“ That’s not much help! Will call you in 5 minutes”
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Or if she responds with her choice, ALWAYS reply with:
“Wrong answer!”
(9 times out of 10 she will reply with “Why, what’s the right answer?”)
And then call her in 5 minutes.
The ‘GINGER’ Ping text.
NOTE: Do not use this ping text on a girl with VERY blonde hair or black hair.
“Are you ginger’ I couldn’t tell in the dark light when we met”
The girl will always reply with:
“No, I’m not I’m blonde/brunette. I can’t believe you thought I was ginger! ;-)”
Respond with:
“Lol Do you have something against gingers”
She will respond with:
“No. But I'm not ginger and no one has ever thought that”
And then call her in 5 minutes.
The ‘TWIN SISTER’ ping text:
“Do you have a twin sister’
She will respond with
“No. Why?”
You call her within 5 minutes. (Many times, this ping text makes the girl call up rather than you
even needing to call her first)
My students are often surprised about how quick the response from the girl is to their ping texts.
Now notice how I deliberately did not add the question mark to the end of any of the ping texts.
The reason for this is simple. A question mark always comes across a little needy or unsure. She
will KNOW it’s a question that you are asking, so no need for the ?
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